I have become so thoughtful these few days, I have become more of a thinker and to be honest, I love the fact that i have become a full thinker. Waking up everyday to hear a funny and interesting news will definitely make you a deep thinker. Today i will be talking about marriage, since i was a little boy up until now, I have witnessed so many wrong marriages that went wrong and many died of heart attack.
Now we know that some marriages that we have around have issues one way or the other and most people go into divorce due to the same marriage issues, I will be going back to the main topic which is the main point of this content Getting Married To Two Wives Right
My Perspective
I will not even go into bible scriptures, I will give my reasons based on real life senerio, it will be more like an eye opener for some us who are married or playing to get married.
Getting Married to two wives for me is a big NO why should i get married to a second wife when i have a wife already at home. I don't know why men do that but for me it is a very big turn off for me, I saw her, I liked her and married her why on earth should i seek for a second wife even the first man on earth had only one. I feel it is an individualistic and personal decision to get married to a second wife.
Many traditions believe that as a king you, should get married to more than one wife. well i have nothing against that but why should you a non-traditional believer get married to more than one wife.
My Reasons
This is why some marriages are having a lot of issues, it is because some men have failed their wives and some wives have failed their husbands. It is common now in Nigeria, I won't speak about other countries, I only know of my country, I said earlier that i will give a life senerio that means an event that took place.
Some men go as far as cheating on their wife, Either some of them do it secretly or do it privately. They have an affair outside and come home to have a fight with their legally married wife. I have seen a man who cheats on he's wife and he's wife is the loyal type. And I have seen a woman cheat on her husband because of he went broke, All these can lead to marriage crises they begin to think of splitting up.
The woman at the other hand sometimes a little predicament came up she uses it as an excuse to talk rudely to her husband. Most mother's can't even be available to take care of their kids that alone makes a man regret he got married to her at the first place.
Their Reasons For Second Wife
Most men go too far, after you get married to her, Few years later you are looking for a second bride isn't that wicked, And when you ask him why he says she doesn't give me peace of mind. Have you sat down and asked yourself that question what did i do wrong that makes her not to always willing to give you peace of mind, you haven't asked and you went straight to marry another wife.
What makes you think that the second wife would also give you peace of mind, That is not enough reason to get a second wife, Some of the men even says she can't cook are you kidding that is not even a thing, you married her didn't you know before getting married to her. And what makes you think the second wife would cook better than your first wife.
Solution
Whenever your wife gives you trouble be the man you are and do the right thing most times these women needs attention and love, And you are not reciprocating the love they will pick offense. If she shouts try to calm her down with kiss and tell her you love her.
If she can't cook help her learn how to because am pretty sure you knew that before putting her in your house. And if you can't cook tell your mom so she can assist her. The holy grail is your love remains strong forever and Very exceptional there is no reason going to take a second wife because of all the little flaws you witnessed in her, try to always be with her when she need you the most.
Conclusion
Getting Married To Two Wives is a very bad and wrong move, If you are having marital or should i say marriage issue, I beg of you try to see a marriage counselor or better still your pastor in your church. Getting Married to a second wife is not the best choice it is a wrong choice sometimes it leads to early death. Try as much as possible to always manage your marriage by making things in your marriage work right.