WhatsApp is a double edged sword in a romantic relationship | Week 16 - Edition 02

As we know, nowadays generally a love relationship must start from social media. Social media today is a bridge to interact for everyone, especially in romantic relationships. Social media can also be the beginning of the destruction in a romantic relationship. for me, relationships built from social media will be good and will also be very bad depending on the intentions and what social media users want to use, including romantic relationships. Therefore, this social media is a double-edged sword that will kill its master anytime and anywhere.

in today's era, whatsapp is a social media device that is most widely used for interaction between partners. I have an early story of the destruction of a romantic relationship because of a partner who can't keep commitments in a romantic relationship.

I have a male friend and he has a girlfriend who was introduced on WhatsApp. The initial introduction went well until he had a romantic relationship with his girlfriend. at first looks fine, no problems, and running happily. but over time, their relationship began to crack and heat up. he told me about his relationship breakdown. apparently the problem arises because his girlfriend is too wild, naughty, childish and can't maintain a relationship with him. At the beginning of their relationship, she cracked because there was another man who entered their love life. the man contacted him using social media whatsapp and his girlfriend responded like a romantic partner. apparently the man was a close friend of hers who had feelings for him. at first my friend asked his girlfriend and he replied that it was only a friend and always answered he was only a friend. Gradually their relationship cracked because his girlfriend didn't understand how to take care of her partner's feelings until the worst case, her boyfriend left secretly with his friend. until my friend who couldn't stand it anymore then left his girlfriend. she is not angry with the man because the man is not wrong. but he is very angry and hates his girlfriend because of her boyfriend's mistake. if their partner is committed to a relationship, then he or she will continue to maintain their relationship and will not be disturbed by new people who want to enter their love relationship even if they are only friends. because he judged, he also used to go from friends to become partners. but the words that my friend remembers the most and are the most trash of a woman are (he's just a friend) for her, those words are trash that comes out of the mouth of a person who will betray a love relationship.

I conclude from their story that, WhatsApp is a silent killer in romantic relationships if we are not wise in using it. then destruction will surely strike. and one more thing look for a partner who understands each other, is not selfish, childish and does not respond to every man.