Greetings, people, and have a nice weekend!
Let me complete the question on my title:
*Have you seen an extrovert who agrees he or she is an extrovert?
Just rack your brain a little,
You're done?
Yeeeey! I bet you didn't locate anyone.
Disclaimer: This is more like a rant. Thank you 🥳
Now, if a contest is being placed on this community to write about either being an extrovert or an introvert, you'll see a lot of people falling into the circle of introverts, and more importantly, a large proportion of people who are actually extroverts would go about beating around the bush, finally coming up with the excuse of ambiverts.
I'm not here to drag you, you, and you on why you refuse to admit that you're an extrovert... I just want to know why extroverted people always refuse to be extroverted.
This lady;
In my formal place of work, there was this lady at the chemist shop close to our block, she's an apprentice there. She's beautiful, godly-endowed, and talks very well whenever she comes around to buy some stuff.
One day, she commented on my WhatsApp status about being shy on her wedding day.
I was like, "You?! being shy on your wedding day, that's impossible, na."
"Guy, you don't understand, I'm introverted, and it's killing me," she replied.
This is the lady I know who runs her mouth like a tap whenever she visits our hall to buy food.
Blessing, you are not an introvert! I told her.
"That means you don't know me." She continued to drag with me.
Why are people not admitting to being extroverted? Wetin' dey happen??
Last week, I remember reading Princessbusayo's article, where she highlighted in the middle of her article that she's an introvert to the core. I had to highlight that particular section and ask her this question; "Why is everyone claiming to be an introvert?"
Yiu want to know her reply? I don't have the strength to trace it for now. Sorry, my bad. Maybe she will give us her response again here.
Is being an extrovert that bad?
I've stayed an introverted person since I was born, and I'm just too eager to break out and feel this freedom of talking freely at first sight in the mist of unknown people without feeling awkward. Or do some of you here consider me an extrovert? Naaaa! My introvert percentage is far higher than 99.9%.😭
I've been mingling with lots of people in this community, and I could tell the introvert among them. But it can't be you🏋️.
So, this lady, @cheeamaka, willcome tell me she's an introvert too? Let's get Oraimo Cord waiting for her reply.
Some weeks back, I was having conversations with @Fashtioluwa and told me how introverted he is. "Taaaaaar! " I had to shun him. This is the same guy who can pin any lady down.
Okay, are people more ambiverts?
After some thorough research I did some weeks ago, I came to find out that people who claim to be ambiverts are unarguably either introverts or extroverts. You're surprised? Now, examine yourself thoroughly; you know the one that's winning in your system....I know you're not in the middle 🤣
I'm feeling sleepy, but before I drop my keyboard, Please be yourself, stop hiding your extrovert trait in the camouflage of ambivert or introvert.
Thanks for reading.