Hello everyone!!!
Have you ever experienced of sacrifice your own wishes for the sake of something else or sometime good for you?
As it's life so we all faced all types of situations in our life. It's not happening every time that we're doing something and people also appreciate our work. Sometimes we have to sacrifice our wishe for others and sometimes we sacrifice our wishes for our selves.
Photo by Erik Mclean
- Self denial ain't a easy thing but we've to do this!!!
In my life I faced many times this situation but here I'll share two experience of life
First situation: When I've to control my diet!!
As once I mentioned in my article that I've to loss weight which i gained during COVID-19. It was the tough year of my life. Because after gaining much weight everyone called me chubby and by many other names which are bullying to me and i hate all those.
I'm a foodie girl who always love to eat dessert and fast food. And if i don't do workout or exercise i can gained weight within a days. So to loss my weight and come back ro normal body weight i avoid to eat fast food and dessert which contains high calories.
Photo by cottonbro studio
A person who is used to eat such food so for that person it's hard to avoid. During COVID-19 we actually stay at home and remain free for all the day because there's nothing to do except some home chores.
As they said: we've to pay to get something good and so I sacrificed my wishes to loss weight.
When my weight was continually increasing I don't know about it. I was enjoying my life during COVID-19 but later I've to control my diet. Even my homies eat fast food and dessert in front of me but i never eat those because i was of specific diet plan.
Second situation: When I've to stop my study
After graduation, i want to go to Turkey or in china for my further studies. I want to get my Master degree from China or turkey but my Perants didn't allowed me to went outside the country for further studies. Once it was my dream to get my higher studies from foreign university but than i can't go to foreign university for studies.
Photo by Polina Zimmerman
I went against my Perants too but they didn't listen to me in this case. They said graduation is enough for you to be called as graduated person but that's not was my wish.
But here I can't go against to my Perants and I've to obeyed their orders because at that time I wasn't financially strong that i can manage my all dues with my pay. That was the biggest regret of my life but now i start to live with that.
Now see the difference
I mentioned two situations of life in which was totally different of self denial experience because in one I sacrificed my own wishes For the sake of my self but in other situation i sacrificed my own wishes for my Perants.
The fact is that i escape from the situation that i denied for myself but i can't escape from that which i denied myself for my Perants because still I'm only a graduated person and that's the reality.
That's all for today and it's my entry to #hl-exclusive in #hl-w70e3