We all perform so much hrad work in our lives. Raising kids is one of them. We have to raise them according to our religion, culture and to taught them a good lessons for their life. Parents teach them how to speak,how to act nice,how to behave with a younger one and how to respect our elders. This is the major duty of the parents to raise a well behaving and diciplined kids. They are the exact copy of thier parents.If we act diciplined infront of them, then are the exactly what we are doing and what we are teaching to them.
We can teach them dicipline in so many ways by telling them a story, by giving them an advice, through punishment and so on. What if they do not act good or did something bad? well i have so many ways to teach them a lesson. I will go through the whole scene and if this is his/ her fsult then i will teach them in a nice way and then tell them to apologies. I will never ever try to give punishment. Moreover i will always try to diciplined them without raising hand. Thia is the best way to teach them a lesson. I have seen so many children who never understand their parents who scolded them, but they understand when they teach them a same thing in a nice way.
I do not support the physical punishment. This is against parenting. If we have to raise our children then we have to forget about physical punishments. This can cause so many negative effects. They can loose their confidence, have anxiety, low self esteem and so much more. Instead of this we can setup bounderies for them, we can perform good actions infront of them so they can copy us. Also we can encourage their small activities to boost their energy. We can encourage them by giving a small prizes.
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I remeber that when i was in a 3rd class. I always got a low grades but my other sibling always on a top. I feel bad for myaelf then my father started this game. He announced that he will give big prize to 1st one and he will divide the prize according to the positions. Also i will check the copies of us and the one who'll get the extra "good" will get the chocolates and sweets. So i always try to get extra marks and extra good. With the passage of time i improved myself and got 2nd postion in a class and after that first. Then my father encouraged me so much and tild me that he is so proud of me. This is the same with the other situation, if we scld our children for doung something bad it cause bad effect on them and they got agressiveness. They try to tease. They will never learn lessons from the punishments. They will learn lesson from the actions and adivices. So i will never be a mother who scold their kids.