Can texting someone be with conditions and still be free and fun to do? I don't know about everyone else but it is possible with me. I am a huge lover of texts, I find it very easy to do and I could be more careful of what I share than I do on phone calls especially with some people. It's not like I try to select my words though but there are some people I would most rather text than call them.
I think someone who loves texting is bound to have more rules about how he or she wants it to be done than some who doesn't do much of texting. And I think these different people sometimes meet in a chat and don't find it fun to do it together so I'm guessing most of the dos and don'ts we have about texting are for people who don't see the power of texting as we do.
Knowing that, I try not to find much issues in texting. I think I could be one of the few or many who don't have much rules in texting. Yeah, you heard me right! When I said conditioned but free texting, I didn't mean strong conditions that anyone wouldn't be able to keep for us to enjoy our texting with each other.
I enjoy texting so much that I could be very tolerating with some weird or bad texting habit. I just make sure to not let it happen again. What are these weird or bad texting habits?
I guess these are the don'ts I have when someone decides to text me. I find them weird and I call those people out on it so I don't have to deal with it again. So that is the condition I talk about but I never do it in a way the person wouldn't have fun or be free to text some other time.
The don'ts I have in texting are quite the general ones most people don't like. One of them is "Texting like you're being disturbed". I mean, if you feel disturbed about it, why do it? So I'd rather not chat with you than have to deal with short forms of texts, closure texts or delayed replies. They are bad turn offs for me and I try to call some out on it for us to enjoy our chats once again or not chat at all.
One more thing I don't like when I chat with others or when people text me is, "Giving obvious waste of time vibes". I know this is kinda an off title to give it but that's how I feel about some texting partners. But this mostly happens when I have stated clearly that I do not have much free time to stay on a chat for too long and someone seem to try to get on my nerves by being serious at one time and then wasting my time at another time.
It's crazy when it happens and I make sure to call the person out on it or I just ignore opening the next text when I've tolerated it too much. These two don'ts seem to be kinda connected but that's it for me. They are not hard to keep by for us to have a fun and free chat.
