It's one thing to find love, it's another thing to figure out if the love is meant to be or you're just forcing your mind to believe that it is the love you want. They say "Love covers every flaw" but shouldn't that have a limit? Even though it's a fact that a love relationship can't be without arguments, it's also a fact that love is meant to be enjoyed between the parties involved.
But what happens when one of the two involved in a relationship is having his or her life threatened?
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The Bible says... Women submit to your husbands in the Lord, Men love and respect your wives always. If life was perfect, many married couples won't have any difficulty in their marriage when they follow this simple rule from the Bible. Where is the love that was once professed when a partner keeps abusing the other both emotionally and even physically? Were those signs not there before they got married?
I would always wonder about this whenever I see this particular woman (I can't disclose who exactly she is to me). You know that instinct you get when you see a person for the first time and you'd wish not to cross path with him again... That was exactly how I felt when I first saw her husband, he had this dark look that was pretty obvious in his behaviour and even in the way he talks. I couldn't stop thinking about what this woman saw in him to had fallen in love with him but like she would always tell me.
Love is blind, you will understand when you fall in love 😏
I've always said this and I'll still say it now and tomorrow, if love will harm me both emotionally and physically because someone can't control his dark emotions and strength, I'll choose to love myself and be on my own
It's better that way if you feel your life is being threatened, you don't feel safe in the place you're supposed to feel the most safe and protected. Women who allow their husbands hit them, insult them so badly and even cheat on them because they lost all respect for the women, those women needs to think removing love from the picture because it's obvious the men has removed theirs too.
This woman keeps getting red eyes, marks on her body and would beg neighbors to eat sometimes but she never saw herself leaving the marriage... Her excuse? That is his own love language and I understand him, My kids will suffer if I leave, he will get better, he's only a human with broken emotions so he is venting out a little on the one he could trust which is me 🙄
Oh really! Until you die? Well, rest in peace in advance
I couldn't say that out loud when I heard her saying all that but it is inevitable, she is endangering her whole life and even the sanity of her kids just to protect the so called love she thinks her husband has for her. Even if she loves him so much, what's the point when he isn't reciprocating anymore? I'd say she go her separate way and take care of herself and her kids.
But then, this brings up the thoughts of women who have refused to do things themselves making them rely so much on their toxic husband who knows very well that the women can't leave them no matter how abusive and wicked they become.
The last time I heard about the woman, they rushed her to the hospital and she's on life support... Successfully done by her loving husband but the bills are on her parents and relatives who she didn't think of when bearing with all the bad signs of death her husband was giving.
Now, I can only wonder if she will go back to her husband when she survives this phase or think again that love really isn't blind and that it has common sense.
