Most times, we often look at good, kind and selfless people and we assume this people are born that way but they truth is they are either inherited or they are shaped to but I believe a good human trait is a characteristic of a good upbringing and a bad human trait is also a characteristic of an upbringing which is why parent need to observant of their children.
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The way a child from a rich family acts is different from how a child from a poor family acts, some might act similarly, but the truth is that all these traits are what they are taught. Everything and every behaviour of an adult starts with the upbringing and exposure.
Upbringing and Exposure are two main factors that influence a child's behaviour and human traits to either be good or bad. Kindness, patience, empathy, and compassion are not traits that people are magically born with; these are traits that are learned through experiences, struggle, cultivated through pain, happiness, and enjoyment, and I will say all these are also part of life and what makes us Human.
Life itself is full of so many circumstances and up and down, when I was growing up there were some traits I acted because I thought they were part of me but the truth is this are all part of life and life has taught us to act this way because we are limited too understanding and people around us, it was when I started to go out and see he beauty of life that I discovered a lot of diffrient trait from many people.
Personally, I have many experiences so many human traits, both good and bad, and I can boldly say these are traits of upbringing and societal experience. A bad society may cause a bad upbringing for a child, and he may feel ignorant of his negative human traits, but a good upbringing goes a long way than we can ever imagine it to be.
Life itself teaches us the bad and the good side of her, but if we fall for the bad side, then it is a result of our environment or parenting problems. This is why we must learn to teach the children's minds to be very strong so they can withstand any challenges or issues around them.
The truth is upbringing matters, but some kindest people are not raised kind they develop to be kind from experiences and people around them, just like me everything life has taught me, I keep on moving forward to achieve them regardless of whatever it may seem to be and I dont always use myself to affect other people space because this is what really defines me.
In conclusion, I feel a good heart isn't just a general or a good human trait; it is built from experiences. Life will teach us how to handle things around us in the right way, so we don't get carried away by the negativity around us.
This is my entry to Hivelearners Week 173 episode 3 weekly prompt