Hello Hive Learners friends, how are you all today, hopefully we are still in good health and can participate in activities smoothly.
Now we have entered the last edition of this week with a very interesting title that has been determined by the community, namely when is the first time we leave the house, whether we go to school or work.
So here I want to tell all my friends about the first time I lived alone or went elsewhere leaving home in years. At the age of 15, unfortunately, my parents told me to go to school outside the city, which is about 200 km from my hometown. When I was a teenager, of course, living alone or leaving my parents was a very difficult thing for us to do because as our first experience leaving our hometown, it was very sad. My parents told me to go to school far from my hometown because they saw my condition in the village at that time they were a little afraid because of promiscuity that could damage or lead to promiscuity.
My parents decided to send me to a boarding school. First I went I was escorted with family then my family left me and left some messages from them. One of the messages they left to me was to be polite to others because if we have a polite nature of course other people will not bother us and also we can always have good relations with others. Then my parents also gave a message to me that study well because your parents have also sent you to a far away and good place, I hope you become a smart child and can love both parents.
When I first lived in a hostel, I felt really sad because everything I wanted to do, of course I had to be independent. Unlike at home, whatever we need, sometimes we can ask our parents for help and our parents will surely help us. But when we are in the dormitory, of course we only ask for help from friends and we also know how much help from friends is of course very different from the amount of help from parents. Living in a dormitory at that time we had to follow very strict rules set by the school and our school also implemented a senior and junior system or a cadet and cadet system.
After a few months I left my hometown, of course I really wanted to be able to go home and see my parents who were far away. But at that time I still wanted to have good relations with friends because for me if we lived with friends or we were immigrants, of course friends were everything to us. And I also want to build a friendly relationship with some friends at school. We go to school not to work but only to study for our living expenses sent by our parents, and part of the school fees are also borne by the relevant government.
At that school, I wanted to do education for 3 years and then after that I also continued at a university in the center of the province. For me to leave the village was indeed very difficult, especially for those of us who are teenagers, of course very sad because at that age we are still very close to our parents, especially like me, this is only the first experience at the age of 15 to leave our hometown and parents.
Maybe this is why I share on this occasion hopefully this can be useful for us and for others. For all of my friends, stay excited about participating in the contest in this community we love. Sorry if there are wrong words because I didn't mean to and I'm still trying to be able to present the best in this community. See you in my next post.
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