I can say the greatest disaster that can ever happen to anybody, I mean absolutely anybody is to have a partner that could read their minds and they are not aware of it. I termed it as cheating because they are like God who is All-knowing. How on earth will one person know absolutely everything about you and you don't know anything about such a person that's cheating now.
It will be so disastrous because I can't imagine my husband who I will be spending my entire life time with could read through all what I've been thinking both good and otherwise and he didn't dim it fit to tell me about it.... I can't take that lightly with him
Let's now say after being married, I now realize that my husband had been knowing my thoughts right from our courtship days without letting me know, it will be the most challenging moment of my life in which I don't think I can bear it. I will be so disappointed in him because I will term it as being fooled, he has known everything about me without my knowledge.... that's very bad.
Apart from my thoughts towards him, thinking about other things concerning my family, work or things about my friends which I'm thinking in my mind had been known before I even say it, that will be so frustrating. Aside from that, my privacy is no longer private. He is now an intruder in my private life and I don't think I can bear it.
So you mean I will be thinking in the comfort of my home and my husband who's at work or God knows where, would have the knowledge of all what I'm thinking about...ahhh....that kind of union can't work because he is intruding on my thoughts and I'm in the dark concerning his own thoughts, that will be killing.
In that kind of a situation, I'm now like a prisoner who doesn't have a say in whatever happens to them in the prison yard because before I can react to a thing, he would have the knowledge of my next move.
The feeling of insecurity will later lead me to depression and I think that will eventually kill me even if I'm not physically dead, then my emotions will be tampered with. It will just turn me into a living dead and I don't think I can bear that kind of relationship.
Although if I had known his mind reading abilities right from day one of our courtship there won't be a problem because I would have think about it over and over before deciding to marry him or not.
But getting wedded and I discovered such nature in him, then there will be a problem because to me he isn't truthful to me and I don't think I can trust that kind of a person for life. It will definitely be a deal breaker that will end our relationship cause I won't be able cope at all.
For him to be quiet means he also has a hidden agenda, I'm an open book to him and he is a closed book to me, such a marriage can never get to the promise land. Because I don't know why he had stayed with me upon knowing all my thoughts, so to be on a saver side, it's better for us to go our separate ways so that my mind will be at rest.
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