Hi friends, happy weekend. Welcome to another wonderful featured contest of the Hive learners community.
For all of us, there is that one thing which we hate with passion and we try our best never to have something to do with it. What is that thing for you? Why do you hate it? Tell us.
As human beings, we have those things we love to do and also want others to do unto us likewise we have what we hate which we wouldn't like to be part of and won't want others to do unto us too. The choice we make on how to live our lives determines who we are, so life is a Choice and every decision matters.
We are all different,there are some people who behave badly to others but expect others to treat them right, they forgot that what goes around always comes around. When you do good to others, the goodwill will surely come back to you and if it's bad that you know best continue because the harvest will come at due time.
I always love to be do good to people because I've got to understand that the good I do will surely come back to me.
There are numerous things that are my turnoffs, which I will love to share some with you:
- Violence
My greatest detest in life is violence, I hate violence and also don't like associating with a violent person at all. I so much hate violence of all kinds with passion, the most rampant form of violence nowadays is Domestic violence. This domestic violence has cause lot of havoc in our world today cause lot of people have now become bullies that are threatening the life of others.
I almost lost my cousin to domestic violence late last year, her husband beat her till she landed in the hospital. She lost her pregnancy through the beating and also was in comma for some days. I couldn't control my tears when I saw how battered she looks.
When she fully recovered, and she narrated her experience in the hand of her husband, I was so mad at her cause she had really suffer in the marriage. According to her, she didn't want to leave her marriage of a year because of what people will say, but after the husband had given her the beating of her life, she left with regret and scars all over her body.
The reason why violence is my greatest turnoff is because it causes suffering, pain, destruction and also body deformation. If one isn't careful violence can also lead to mental disorder and death
- Back Biters
People who back bites are dangerous and destructive, saying wrong things about someone when the person isn't present is evil. Back biters are also liers because majority of what they say are always contrary. And anyone who indulge in back biting is evil.
I hate back biting because it usually tarnishes someone else image which can lead to depression and this can make someone commit suicide. So I try as much as possible not to indulge in the act. If I can't talk in your presence, know that I can't say anything bad about you when you aren't around
- Pompous and cocky people
Truly been confidence is good but sometimes those that portray the attribute are somehow pompous and cocky.
This type of people are such a turn off for me because they believe only in whatever they say and doesn't acknowledge others opinion
- Poke Nosers
Poke Nosers are gossipers and nosy people, who always get involve in matters that doesn't concern them. They always interfere in others business while leaving their own business and this behavior always land them in trouble.
I hate them because they say unreal things and are also liers. I always try as much as possible not to interfere in matters that doesn't concern me cause I respect people's boundaries alot, I like minding my business so as to stay out of trouble.
These and many more are my turnoffs which I detest with passion.
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