Being an extrovert affects both the way I talk and the way I text people too. Well, don't let me get close to you; if you tell some people that Ayobami hadly talked or Ayobami hadly chatted, they will tell you it's a lie. At the same time, if you tell some people that I talk and chat too much, they will also disagree with you.
I don't really have too many rules when it comes to chatting with people. But first, I'm not someone who loves to chat for hours. If you text me too much, I will get bored and tired. I wondered how some people can go to length on chatting with someone. Hours, and will not get tired at all. Although I'm not really surprised because some years ago, I could stay on Whatsapp and be chatting every day for hours and not get tired at all. But that was then.
Just because I do not want people to talk to me too much on my social media handles, I'm always invisible. If you chat with me on Whatsapp, you will hardly know that I'm online. I could remember back then when we were using GB WhatsApp; this particular WhatsApp is so good to the extent that you can become a ghost totally without anyone knowing. I used this for several years just because I don't want people to text me messages too much.
If you ask me, why? Honestly, I don't know; if I ever promise to chat with someone, I will forget. The desire to chat for me is zero. But that doesn't mean I don't chat at all. I chat, but to a few people only, especially when it's updates or something that will bring food to my table.
So many people have fought me because it's so difficult for me to ask of them by just chatting with them alone. I don't get angry if people refuse to ask of me or even talk to me again. I know I can be weird too.
On the other hand, I hate it when someone I don't talk to just calls me, especially video calls. Honestly, you will wait there forever because I will never pick up the calls. Even voice calls. I will hardly pick up your calls if we are not close. But believe me. I've got people I talk to to length on the phone; in fact, I prefer talking to texting sometimes. Only if we are close. If we are not close, if you call me, then you are just playing because I will never pick up.
Moreover, I'm someone who hates people who just text without knowing what they want or not going straight to the point. Imagine a stranger just messaging you and being like, Hi, hey, without saying anything. If I'm in a good mood, I will also reply hi. If not, I will just let the text be like that till further notice.
I honestly have lots of messages unreplied; some are even older than a year. And believe me, I've told some people I reply to their messages within a sec. It all depends on who you are to me.