I don't think I know myself enough to make this post as detailed as I want it to be but I'll try, I'll try to say a few things I think I know about myself that people might use to see me as a role model.
I'm a mix up of seriousness and playfulness
I like to play, not in the sand or anything but of that sort. I mean in the sense of not taking life too serious because no one knows tomorrow. I think one of the reasons people hang out with me is because they feel free around me. It's impossible to have a dull moment with me when I'm happy but when it's time to get serious, I'm serious.
People take me seriously or at least I think they do because my opinion matters in a lot of situations. Whenever I'm in meetings, be it work related or church, people always want to hear my take on things because I ask the right questions. I've had people come up to me and tell me they liked the way I handled a particular situation.
I feel like people around me also want that feeling, the feeling of being useful.
I always have good grades
I add this because I've actually heard people say they want to be like me because of my grades. I always have good grades even when I don't feel like I would. There was a situation where I was late for an examination and barely had enough time to answer all the required question and I still made an A in that course.
I tutor a lot of people and I have people wanting to read with me. Not that I encourage cheating (if you want to call what I'm about to say cheating) but people always expect me to come through for them in the text or exam hall.
I've been told by junior colleagues that they want to hang out with me for a bit and I should tutor them because I make passing so easy.
I also noticed recently that I thrive in whatever I set my mind to, that should be something everybody should want, the ability to thrive in other things outside their zone.
I can sing
It would be weird for me if I didn't add this part and I @hopestylist doesn't read this because she is always on my case when it comes to singing here on hive😅. I was born with this amazing talent and I know it still needs alot of work but I can't deny that I have a good voice.
If I had a penny for the number of times I've heard,
"Teach me how to sing na" or "Gosh, I want to be like you"
I would be very rich by now, okay, maybe I over exaggerated there bit but I've heard it so many times. Not every want to learn how to sing but for the few that want to and the ones that still have a voice training to do, I can be a role model.
The last trait I'll mention is I am funny
This might not be a trait everybody needs but it should be something we want. The ability to make the people around us smile or laugh even. Comedy comes so some people easy, some have to work on it, others are just clowns but you get my point.
I'm one of the clowns. I love to make people laugh even if it's at my own expense. I dare you, spend a day with me and not laugh, ask @merit.ahama, I almost made her laugh into marrying me😏.
I know I would want to be like someone who's funny.
Thanks for taking your time to read, I hope this traits I mentioned are worth looking up to and if you're reading this @merit.ahama, I just thought it'd be fun mention you hear, can't remember the last time we had a conversation because we've never really had any😅.