It's been a long long while, how is the wee coming?
Well, I saw a video earlier on that made me want to talk about the topic below.
I guess we all need to draw a clean line between those two. A secret relationship is a secret while a private relationship is private. Stop confusing both and allowing some guy or girl to play with your intelligence.
"Baby, I don't want people to know about us, let's keep, it between ourselves"
"I don't want jealous eyes on you, let it be between you and I"
"I don't want anyone to take you away from me"
Yen Yen Yen!
Will you just shut up and tell that lady or that guy you are not into them but just want to use them and move on!
Yes everyone must not know but key people should know. That's why when problems come up, you won't be able to open your mouth and ask for help because you have always put up front as someone who doesn't know what a relationship is.
A private relationship is a relationship that key persons are aware of, but outside the knowledge of the world!
A secret relationship, like that uncle and the aunty is saying is between "you and I".
But do you know what, that's the kind of relationship that kills!
That's how they will be dating more than one person, worst still people in the same circle and because it's a secret relationship all of them will not know.
I understand you wouldn't want to lay bare your relationship to the world but there are key person in your life that should know.
*Your parents (if they are like mine)
*Your Pastors
*Your mentors
*Your friends (close) and vice versa.
Evil thrives in secrecy!
The tendency to mess up is subdued when key persons are involved, for before you act, you will be forced to count the people involved.
A word is enough for the wise.
Happy Tuesday
Vee Jassy