We are humans with different personalities. Even siblings from the same womb have different likes and dislikes, whether mild or severe. Just like I have things that I dislike a lot about people's characters or physical things, people may also have what they dislike about my personality. In this post, I am going to share with you the top three things I dislike and why.
Treating people badly
The aspect I want to stress more about this heading is those people who bring in maids to stay with them at home, serve them and do literally chores you can think of or imagine. I hate it with passion to see some of these couples or even the madam of the house treat someone's son or daughter like a trash all because he or she came to serve you. I have seen the categories of these people treat their children like queens and kings and then give the maid left over food without meat. On top of it, subject the maid to unimaginable chores in a day. Like seriously? Where is people's conscience. I had a friend one time and why we separated was because I countioned her to stop maltreating the girl child she brought in her home to serve her. The manner she beats her at every slightest mistake is just uncalled for. I couldn't watch her continue and when she refused to listen to my advice, I distanced myself from her.
You see maltreatment? I hate it and wouldn't have anything much to do with people that maltreats others just people of little privilege they have. Come to think of it, the person you feel is nobody today can be your saving grace tomorrow
People who do not apologize
Because we are humans, it's very common to make mistakes. Offending our close friends or even a stranger sometimes is inevitable but it becomes healthy when we realize our mistakes and apologize. It's weird to see that some people do not apologize when they wrong others. They will prefer to see the matter die off naturally rather than saying I am sorry. Permit me to say that this is a toxic trait that I so much dislike. This kind of people wear their ego like a garment and I sincerely detest such behavior. Dealing with this kind of people? Hmmm, I had one and I was always forcing her to apologize and until she do so, I will always stay clear from her because why the ego?
Body odour
Cleanliness is next to godliness. I love to see people neat both in their home and outside their home. Why smell badly for God's sake when you can easily maintain good body hygiene? I see this kind of person as lazy because, if not, regular bathing, wearing clean clothes, using roll-ons, and using body spray are enough to keep one clean and pleasant. You wouldn't want someone to throw up after coming in contact with you. Personally, if I notice a bad odor on people, at least my friends and mates, I will politely tell you about it; if not, I will ensure never to stay very close with you in any case.
There are still more things I dislike with passion as a person, but these are my top three. Feel free to add yours.
This post is in response to the #hivelearners contest on the topic titled, Just Three Things