Hello everyone. How are you? I hope you are doing well. This time the theme is about broken promises. Have I ever done it or what was it like? I want to tell you an incident where I had a special relationship with a man. A romantic relationship to be precise, not just friends.
And at that time, we promised to continue to support each other no matter what happened even though we had separated. But in the end, somehow the story went, we ended the relationship. Maybe the breakup was not pleasant. We had a big fight and it turned out that there was no solution from our relationship to move forward.
And one of them is that we broke the promise. The promise to support each other even though we no longer have a special relationship. Until today, I am no longer in touch with that person. Why didn't I chase that person and fix the relationship? Because I saw that my relationship with that man had no future.
In the end, I realized that we were distancing ourselves after becoming enemies. That also made me think that this relationship had to be ended. On the other hand, there was also a sense of guilt when I was in this relationship. He came at the wrong time. The timing was not right and everything was not right.
After I thought about it, the promise had to be broken. I think this relationship can't be continued. I considered five things. So, I believe that everything is finished or ending this relationship is the best way given by God. Until two years later, I reflected that there was no development in this relationship.
And I believe that God wants me to finish with the relationship. Until now I do not regret it but I am grateful to be able to finish it with that person. Maybe that's all I can say about the fence? This is my hidden story and no one else knows this story.
From this, I reflect that in the end the promise to strengthen each other is not enough for two people to have a future. and it is better not to promise 1-2 things so that our hearts are calm at that time. I learned a lot that we don't need to promise just to calm other people. Because, it will be tested but let everything go as God wants.
The reason for making a promise is quite heavy, especially if we will be shaken by one other thing, namely conditions and desires. I used to think that the condition was quite heavy, I wanted to be the one who would promise that we had made, but indeed this is the best way, it is also what has carried me until now. That's all I can say, see you in the next story.
My name is Nurdiani Latifah. I live in Jakarta – Indonesia, and after 25 years I live in Bandung. I am a media staff at an NGO in Indonesia. I have worked in this institution for almost 2 years on issues of women and peace. I have been a journalist in Bandung for 3 years.
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