Greetings Everyone.
welcome to my blog and another wonderful edition of the hive learners featured post. Today I will be sharing my biggest fear with you, before I focus on the topic of the day I'd like to wish you all a blissful week ahead.
Every human being has a thing or two they fear and don't want to have anything to do with that thing, I am not an exemption as I have so many things I fear but one supercedes all and that one thing I fear the most is failure.
Most of the time I would rather not try than for me to try and fail, failure kills me and makes me regret ever trying and because of my fears I had to let go of many opportunities by not trying so as to help me escape the shame of failure.
My fears actually put me through a lot, imagine not trying because of your fears and you later end up regretting not trying, that pain alone is enough to push one into depression but I was able to survive all because of the people around. The major reasons I fear failure is because of what people will say, my mom and dad expects a lot from me therefore a single failure is slap to their face and I won't want that to happen.
A lot of people look up to me, my failure will actually result to the failure of many as well and I also don't want that to ever happen, all these contributes to the reason I fear failure and don't want anything that has to do with failure.
Coping with not wanting to fail for any reason is quite a difficult task, despite the fact not everything I tried was a success but little words of encouragement from friends and family goes a long way in awakening the dying spirit and giving me reason to try again.
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