I was supposed to attend a wedding ceremony in company of my dad. The couple had their preferred colours - Berry (a shade of red) and Royal Blue. I found myself in the dressing room for over an hour trying to match the red dresses I had with shoes that my dad had to leave me behind. It wasn't fun at all. I was already crying because my shoe was Scarlet colour and I needed a pure blend of shade of red for the party. But come to think of it, nobody would actually notice the deviation in the colour shades. I was caught in that web of choice simply because I had options,. If I did not, I would have used what I had.
Dressing dilemma is one of the problems women face when it comes to dressing. The number of dresses in the wardrobe doesn't matter, but the right dress for the proper occasion is what we are considering here. I must have believed, that it happens to all the women.
Like, traditional marriage requires, its outfit, like Ankara or native with accessories that will match with the dress. This will give us identity and influence and respect.
Dressing dilemma is one of the reasons women have different types of dresses in their wardrobe and, at the same time, get confused about what to wear when it is not at the right collection.
The power of dressing lies in looking smart on the outside, even with the little dress you have. Your outfit is the major thing when you have a professional program or presentation.
And children do have dress dilemmas too and as mothers we need to take it as a responsible to dress our children in a good outfit. They make not be smart enough to choose their dress, and look in a mirror like a mature person could do.
Men are not left out in this trouble, though theirs is a bit less complex. A woman can cry because of not find the correct outfit for any occasion she wishes to attend. For the men, it could be with ties and socks. I can remember my brother calling me to help him match his tie with his shirts for an outing. After many selections that didn't work, he dropped the ties and went his way. he didn't cry as I would have done.
Ways of solving the dressing dilemma!
Always keep your wardrobe minimal. There would be no dressing dilemma if you had few choices to make. Do well to give out clothes you do not need or and those that are not fitting well.
Always learn the dress code of your host or audience and do well to wear what fits in.
You need to build your self esteem such that you do not need people to validate your beauty in dressing.
Select your clothing for an occasion ahead of time. Avoid the last minute rush.
I strongly believe that we can overcome this petty trouble we cause ourselves by living a simple life.
Thank you foe reading.
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