I have quite a lot of things I can't bring myself to do not because there are necessarily bad but I have no reason to choose to do them. Moral codes, beliefs, mindset, opinions, thought patterns, we all have differently as individuals.
Basic Morals of My Tribe: I am a Yoruba guys from Nigeria and any Nigeria can tell we have the most respectful culture, all Nigerian tribes promote respect but my tribe just find it more important. I can't go against our basic morals like greetings, respect for young and old, behaviour, ethics and the likes. I was brought up among people who have respect for our culture and they detest it seeing younger ones going against them, I got used to it and I live by them.
Relationship with People: I wish I knew this very early in life that people are important; that the quality of people I have in my life can determine the quality of my life. Emphasis on quality. I do not necessarily need to have a very close relationship with everyone, all I need is to recognise, know and accord some sort of respect to them so they know me and I know them. Why ? You do not know where your help will come from. Someday, they might be the one to help you, refer you or your brand or product, mention your name in room of opportunity. Some might be your access to get into a place or to get to other people. I value relationship with men but I make sure they are gifted/talented, influencial or ones that can bear my burden with me and vice versa. This doesn't mean I do not relate well with people I seem to be better than. I also value my friends and make sure I am of value to them too, it has to be balanced for to be called friendship.
Christianity: In this world, there are more than a thousand things I would have love to do but being a Christian has been a good limit for me because there are things I can not do even if they are not necessarily bad. My life is tied to my belief and I live by it. I see youths doing things I would have love to do, live life like there is no tomorrow but I just can't, that is not me; it is expedient that I be who I say I am, live like a true Christian and act like it.
Stick To My Words and Convictions: I have always been someone who love to do as I have said, some say a man is known by his words and deeds. As expected every human acts according to his mindset and belief. I've met with people who had issues with me because of some certain opinions and convictions, tried to make me see from their lens which I did but didn't make any sense to me, most of the reason is because I see that they are quite selfish or we can't just agree on many things or they want me to be or act like someone else acts towards them. I am off, do not care about their opinion about me. I am currently working on being 100% okay with people who have different opinions about me, especially those who have very wrong opinions about me. That I would not be bothered at all.
Social Life: I can not change from being an introvert. I love going out, being around friends, staying out late, eating out but I still love being in my space more, being alone and enjoying life. Though, I know I can't always be on my own but I love the balance, the fact that I can be so jovial and will always go back to being alone. I have about 3 guys that loves the extroverted life and we are cool. I can go out with them 3 times out of 10 and we are cool that way.