Parenting is not an easy adventure, it is quite a perilous journey. In-fact parenting is one of the most hardest and crucial aspects of life, and that is because this skills determine the future of every child. Parenting is a very difficult task that determines the future turnout of a child, what you sow now is what you reap later. If you don’t parent your offsprings well and in the right way, they will end up becoming your worst nightmare in the future, but then not in all cases, this is me talking from indirect experience…
A worry free future is assured to every parents with good parenting skills, I mean parents who chastise their kids when the need arises and also show them love when it’s needed. What we need is a mixture of physical punishments, canes and love. Love is a very important ingredient when it comes to parenting…
These three ingredients work hand in hand, some kids don’t need physical punishments when they do the wrong thing, talking to them in the right manner and then educating them on the impact of such actions with the risks or consequences attached to it will set them straight. Not all of the mistakes a child makes deserves physical punishments, sometimes what we need is making us understand what we did wrong and then correcting us, if it happens again then physical punishments can be imposed…
We have different categories of children out there, i have given an example of one of them in the previous paragraph. We have some children that only listen to the corrections of physical punishments, if they aren’t treated like goats they won’t learn from their mistakes and turn a new leaf. We also have some children that non of these correctional equipment work on, be it physical punishment or canes, non of these work on them, in most cases love coupled with the intervention of God is implored…
I am not a parent yet but then i can talk from the perspective of a parent and also that that of a child. Disciplining my child after he or she has done something bad totally depends on the child and the nature of his offense. I won’t beat my child to death over breaking a glass plate plate neither will i beat him to land in the hospital over the mere damage of any home appliances. What you do, how many times it happened and the feeling afterwards will determine the level of punishment to be assigned…
Not all mistakes deserves physical punishment or caning, sometimes using the word punishment is better, but then some children are just the best definition of goat. If they don’t get punished severely they won’t learn. Some kids just love learning the hard way, words of correction don’t really work on them 😂…
As a child, what works for me is everything. I have been a victim of these three correctional methods, i have been punished physically before, i have been caned countless times too and also been corrected with just words, at the end of the day it depends on the level of my mistake and the number of times i have done it. A fresh mistake would warrant the use of words, if it continues to happen then cane might be introduced, if it refuses to stop then all three methods will be introduced one after the other, lol…
When I become a parent in the future, these three correctional methods will be always readily available, I won’t indulge any of my child with bad behavior. Your mistake, the number of times you do it and how you feel after doing it will determine which to use. I won’t use cane when what is needed is correctional word, I won’t use correctional word when what is needed is physical punishment and cane. I will even use all three if need be…
In summary, parenting is not an easy task, it takes a whole different level of discipline, skill and courage to make these kids better everyday. We need to train up our child in the way he should go so that when he is old he will not depart from it…
In conclusion, indulging your kids when he or she has done something wrong is the pathway to future unending tears, lets endeavor to do the right things at the right time and always making our children our first and topmost priority…
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