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Quarrels are a well-known topic. Quarreling one of the worst behavior of beautiful immigrants in this beautiful world. This is the kind of thing that never brings anyone good and never will.
Reason of quarrel and effects of being Middleman
Two of my friends are quarrelling for a silly issue.The situation was getting out. I thought I should make them quite. Naturally I keep myself at a distance from quarrel and fight. As nowadays if you go to do something good in return you get stress and danger.Even many times it happened to me. I tried to set the quarrel but they got me involved in the case. Sometimes the man who try to fix them become a victim of violence.Still I went to be the middle man.As both are my good friends it was difficult to suggest anything. The issue was silly.One of them got punished by the teacher because he drew something wrong in the black board and he came to know that the other friend said it to the teacher. For this reason they were quarrelling.
How I fixed it and how was the Experience
At first I told them to be quite and discuss the problem peacefully. But they didn't pay hid to me.Then I changed the policy. I tried isolate one of them. I told one of friend that I will never talk to him if he continued it and also told that I would try to convince the other to apologize to him.He understood and be quite. Then the other friend also be peace.Then I took them to a restaurant and discuss what happened. Then they realized they were in misunderstanding.The teacher himself saw my friend to do that.That they felt ashamed. Then we do fun huge in the restaurant.
Consequences of quarrel
Quarrels only do harm. Quarrels between father and mother, quarrels between brothers and sisters, we ourselves became quarrelsome on the streets. Wars and fights are bound from quarrels. It's not unheard of for famous people to waste time fighting. Because you can never become respected and famous by fighting.
Our life is only for a while and that is why it is so precious. It is very foolish to waste precious time of life by arguing.90% of divorces are due to fighting. If you quarrel day and night, bitterness will come in the world, it will break. From one house to the next house, then to father's house and finally to divorce. No one ever wins an argument. Be it money, be it respect, something will be lost. Who do we usually quarrel with? Most of the time with your people but why? The main goal of quarreling is to hurt others. Fighting is animal nature because animals don't understand good manners but they can fight.
It is always seen that quarrels start from very little things. So while arguing, stop and think if it is really necessary and if it will benefit me. The answer to this question will tell you what you should do. One of the ways to avoid a fight is to avoid it. There are different types of quarrels, like the quarrels of educated people are of one kind and the quarrels of uneducated people are of one kind. One for boys, one for girls. One for children and one for adults. Any quarrel has bad consequences.
One thing I've learned in my short life is that no one gets a chance to mess with you unless you want to. Arguing does not solve problems. If you want a solution, you have to sit in the discussion.Remember,
"A man can never be insulted, he is insulted of his own volition, be it for his actions or for his ignorance."Those who quarrel, cause pain in people's hearts, they also get pain and curse from people. If being nice to someone is an act of love, then arguing with someone is terribly rude.
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