I am lucky to have such a lovely family and also met many great and awesome people in my life who always care for me. Help is not done just through money, there are many ways to serve humanity and if you really want anyone to help, you can help in many ways. One of them is your advice, suggestion or you can say guideline which you can pass it on to the needy one. As I said earlier, I am surrounded by people who really loves me doesn’t means they always financially supports me, but they always try to correct me through their advises.
I believe any advice is just an experience or the special words carried on from centuries. Proper advice is something which a person has experienced and then advice others with his experience to be vigilant against something or how to deal with it. That is some personal experience and I believe everyone has different point of views and different way of thinking against each and everything, other than that it is not necessary that the given advice would be handled the same way as the one giving advice handled it. It may vary and sometimes, it may have totally opposite reactions. So, adopting any advice could lead to good or bad both, it is up to you to decide otherwise and most probably, thinking of cons and pros.
Being the youngest in the family, you all can imagine how many advices I have got till now. I won’t say all of them are useless but most of them didn’t fix in my mind so I don’t follow for which I used to get hear a lot from my brothers specially @shahzad-ansari. Not taking any of his advices seriously when I was too young, he always tried to improve my living but I was too lazy to act on his advices. Cutting short, I would like to share two advices which I think and in my opinion were the most powerful and also proved to be correct and beneficial for me.
First one was from my eldest bro @shahzad-ansari who really worked hard on me to get married. Yes, that’s true. I don’t wanna get married and was happy living alone, I just love my nephews and niece and was living a happy life. My parents and brothers were worried as I was getting old and was not serious for marriage. I don’t have any girl in my mind to whom I wanna get married so it was a little upset for all family members. For this case, my bro came all the way from Sweden to Pakistan specially for this case and spent a week in discussing this matter with me. He advised me to get married and shared many good reasons for that.
Finally, I agreed but will marry someone of my Mother choice because my Mother is the one who knows me very well so she will definitely choose the correct partner for me. Here at this point, I took the advice but was little worried about future life. However, whatever my bro showed me through his words was looking very bright and beautiful life. Cutting short again, it was a powerful advice which changed my life upside down. It all went good for me till now and I hope will follow the same path in future too. Life partner is very important and the happiness you get to hold your own kid in your hands is priceless. I won’t say this advice will always work the same way with others but fortunately, it worked for me very well.
Another advice I would like to highlight was from @shrazi, and it was about joining HIVE world. I got a bit late in practicing his advice, he was trying to convince me for almost 2 years and I was like how would I do blogging, I don’t have time, and many other lame excuses. I salute my bro that he didn’t stop giving me advice for Hive and one day, I accepted to work on Hive. He made my mind perfectly, it is not fast cash or quick money, you wont get rich in few months. He very nicely described it as saving for future. Making a building, block by block you have to struggle, work hard, keep moving and then you need to have patience in it plus you will learn many other things time to time. It is all true whatever he said, I didn’t get it all in one day but when I entered in Hive world, I experienced it by myself. Best advice to work on, really helped me practically in my savings and investments although I am not really good in it but still trying my best and learning new things.
It is recommended that you always listen to the advises and never take any of those for granted but do your own research after getting advice and act accordingly. Good Luck!!!