Wanting to lose weight is mostly for someone that's fat and thinks there's need to lose some fats so as to be fit then wanting to gain weight is basically for people that are slender or someone that already lose weight maybe due to poor feeding, sickness, depression etc that kind of person need to start eating good food, needs to take some drugs if need be and some other methods.
Have heard about people that do this things, especially ladies that are fat, they will want to lose weight so they take slimming tea, the tea is capable of reducing the fat in their body while some also do some exercise to reduce their weight.
I'm not too fat or too slim, so I can say I'm just moderate in size, therefore I don't usually have reasons to add or lose weight.
Nevertheless as a human being whose wants are insatiable, there were two occasions that I thought about adding weight, the first was the time I was so sick that I became so lean, too obvious for anyone to know that I'm sick, thanks to God that I survived the sickness, because I used all sort of medications yet there was no changes, I became frustrated to the point that I don't even know what to do, later my mum suggested that I use herbs, I was relieved and healed completely after taking the herbs, all thank to God.
So after the sickness, I was now battling with gaining back my weight, I had to take some medicines like blood tonic and also eat good food coupled with adequate rest. Before I knew it I started going back to my normal size. That was the first time I thought of adding weight, because I don't even like being fat lols I detest it so much, I prefer a moderate body size. Moreover I play football so adding too much flesh will not be too good for my sport activities.
The second time I tried to gain weight was when I just woke up one day and I decided that I need to add small weight, couldn't even figure out what was wrong with me. I was not lean, I was not sick, I just decide that I need to add weight. You know when you're living fine, no worries, no panic, there are some silly things that you'll just be craving lols... I can only say what triggered my decision to some extent was because there are some clothes I wear that doesn't fit me too well because am not fat or lean, so I thought if I try to add small weight those clothes or clothes generally will start looking good on me too.
And even despite all these, I did not try to use any kind of medicine whatsoever, I was just eating good food and taking my time to rest, anyways due to the nature of my jobs as both online and offline worker, I don't really have enough time to rest, but then I realized it's only someone with good health and someone that's alive that will live to enjoy what he had worked for, so I start giving myself adequate rest as at when due, we only live once.
Some i was born and till this moment have not had a reason to lose weight, I'm not fat but I also don't like being skinny. Because people will think you're not feeding well or you're broke. Though as much I want to be fleshy to some extent I don't want to develop pot belly at all, I dislike it alot.
The one I can't go for or support is doing surgeries all in the name of losing or adding weight, for me I think that's too not too good. Even though a lot of so called celebrities do it, some undergo surgery so they can become moderate while some also undergo surgery to expand their buttocks, their breasts etc. All these things has their complications. Instead of surgery I think they're other ways like exercising, dieting etc..These ones has little or no side effects.