Three things I hated most in my life.
There are three things that I really can't stand. One of them is a certain personality type that I dislike the most. I simply don't tolerate people who show this negative quality.
Firstly, I detest dishonest people. I find it intolerable when someone lies or cheats on others in order to get an advantage. It's such a dishonest and self-centred way to behave. Cheating is a sign of insincerity and disrespect for other people. I instantly lose all faith in someone if I discover them to be dishonest or deceitful.
Additionally, I really dislike arrogant and conceited people. Let me put it plainly - I hate prideful individuals. Those who act superior or better than everyone else really bother me. Arrogance is an instant turn-off. It shows someone is full of themselves and looks down on others.
I try to avoid arrogant folks because their huge egos make them unbearable to be around. They always have to be right about everything and never listen to other views. Their excessive pride keeps them from being open-minded or humble. It's an ugly quality that makes me dislike someone very quickly.
And finally, I detest being shunned or sidestepped. People that act as like I'm not even there or give me the cold shoulder bother me a lot. It's really inconsiderate and impolite to treat someone that way, particularly if you know them well. Avoiding and ignoring someone is dismissive behaviour that irritates me right away.
When I'm talking to someone and they start tuning me out or looking at their phone, that's an absolute pet peeve of mine. It makes me feel unimportant and unvalued as the other person clearly doesn't care about what I'm saying. Being purposefully ignored puts me in a sour mood right away.
I make an effort to always listen attentively when others speak to me. So when that same courtesy isn't extended back, it really irks me. Being on the receiving end of someone giving me the cold shoulder or silent treatment just feels wrong and disrespectful.
Being shunned or avoided, in my opinion, demonstrates a shocking lack of common sense and politeness. Even though you may not get along perfectly, it's a pretty callous way to treat people. People who respond to circumstances that way bother me.
Ultimately, cheating, arrogance, and the act of ignoring are three behavioral traits that immediately get on my bad side and sour my opinion of someone's character. They show selfishness, disrespect, and excessive pride - qualities that I simply can't tolerate in the people around me.
I'm a firm believer that you can tell a lot about a person based on how they treat others. If someone cheats, acts arrogantly, or purposefully ignores people, those are huge red flags revealing a lack of integrity.
So while I try not to harshly judge others, those three things make up my personal deal-breakers. Cheating, arrogance and the cold shoulder are immediate strikes in my book. I have no room for those kinds of unsavory behaviors in my circle.
I much prefer being around honest, humble and considerate people who value open communication and treating others with dignity and respect. Those are the positive character traits I appreciate in others. Avoiding negative qualities like the three I mentioned is important to me.
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