Hello there, how are you all doing today? good right? great 👌 let the good life keep us and keep lots of disappointments from us...
So this topic really got me thinking, I could not even think of any yet, I had to go and read others, before writing this. Fact, I'm even still thinking while I'm writing this.
So before we move on, I'd like to ask us, (including me) this question. Are there bucket lists in your life, or just wanna creat one now? Or already given up on bucket lists because you think you can't make it? Or you don't even have at all? What I'm just trying to say is that, sometimes, bucket list makes us know who we are, then wanna be in a certain period of time, and of course, why we wanna be whatever we wanna be. Try have some lists and work towards your purpose in life...
So the first on my ABL (anti bucket list) is:
- FAKES:
I am a human, and so are you all, we all have our weaknesses and just the same as we have our strengths; and that's why sometimes we make friends, I mean, imagine your a person has a weakness in one area of her life, and that is a strength in your life, we tend to become friends; then I cover you up in your weakness while and you do the same for me in terms of my weakness, you feel me?
It will not now be fair if you are just being kind to me because there is something in my life that you envy, and you are just after that thing, and the moment that thing is gone, you are also gone. How do you expect me to feel, I will them tame it is not a real friendship, it was all fake from the beginning of. Try to consider others before you do what you wish to do, think about the effects before you conclude so you won't hurt others and put a bad impression on your self.
TROUBLE
Normally, not everyone will like us, not everybody will be happy for our success and joy, but if there are just 3 things that I hate in life, trouble will be part of it. I will say that you are not living a purposeful life if everyone is happy with you, but you can just keep you bad belle one side, and let me take the other side, I just hate trouble, please, I wish trouble can be eradicated from life; but on the contrary, life is not straight, there are good and bad times, and troubles are part of the bad times. But I don't want it 🥺LIES / NOT BRING STRAIGHT
Sometimes I wonder why adults lie to themselves, I'm not supporting it the life of children, but I will still understand if children are still lying, probably they don't exactly know what they are doing and then they are still young, they still have lot of lives ahead of them.
Come on, what is the gain an adult get in lying to he's fellow adult? you wanna say you are avoiding problems or argument? Have you forgotten that the truth can not be hidden for too long? and when your fellow mate finds out that you have been lying to him, what will happen then.
You know, when you wanna lie, you think of that time and not the future, you believe that the future will take care of it self. that's even a lie that you are lying to yourself about, you forgot that it takes about a thousand lies to cover one lie, what will be of you when you are being caught of you lies?
And as for those that are not always straight in their words and doings, it will just be hard to gain trust from anyone, no one will recommend you for anything, I mean anything, even though you are good in that thing, you'll still not be trusted at all...
All these kind of acts are my NBL, how I wish they give me chance to live my life the way I want...
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