Hello good evening to all my bosses here, I humbly great you all (all of you are literally my bosses) Happy June 12! I hope you all are doing really good, how did your day go? Pls gist me...
So today's featured contents Week 14:- Edition 02:- hl-exclusive
Life is not a piece of predictable cake
As you all know, growing up as a child was one of the easiest part of growth, we will be woken up early in the morning to get ready to school, we will go and eat or even be fed, we'll come back home accompanied by a bike, not caring how it is happening, wether it was out parent that were paying or we were on scholarship, all that mattered was that we should just be taken care of...
We always ask for what we want not caring if whom we are asking is capable of doing what we are asking for, we just believe that all big people should one way or the other have money because they are big or older...
There was this stupid ease in our heart that when we grow up we'd work in one kind of super company and be paid enough to start a life, marry the right person and give birth to beautiful children and take care of your family, I didn't know this
was all children imaginations...
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The experience that changed my mind set about life was the second place of my working and earring, I started working at a quite Young age, I was 15 years of age when I had my first working experience, it was stressful, but I didn't see it as too stressful because the working place was opposite my house and so I didn't pay for transportation fee and I was still fed by my parent so it didn't choke me too much, I was till dependent...
But my second work experience showed me another perspective of life, it showed me that life was not a piece of predictable cake, it showed me that to even make that cake, there are precesses and procedures and also time, after struggling and finally found a space to work, as soon as I got home, I had to start think deeply if I would still resume for work the next day, I was so tired, but I survived...
I used to be paid every 2 weeks and so at the bed of the month when I was paid, my dad told me to use out of the money I was earning for my transportation fee and feeding, I was shocked at a point, but I encouraged my self and said it was part of life, I thought he didn't have money for that day and that he was going to give me money the next day, but same thing happened, I now remembered when he said it that I will soon start paying for my self, but I took it for levity, but it happened and my eyes cleared since then...
Now, I could barely remember that I once dreamt of having a super paying job to live a comfortable life, it turned out to be the opposite, but then I realized that it was maturity and also a training of independency, it is not going to be too hard to struggle when I am much older, it was a blessed lesson, teaching that life is not bread and butter, that some days, you might only see bread to eat without butter, they say life is not balanced,but that is what makes life, imagine everything was smooth, no stress, the day stress will eventually come, 90% of the earth will fade away, I have an adult friend that was telling us about her life, she said when she was younger till she got married, she didn't struggle for anything, she lived a comfortable life not untill she got married and saw real life, her cartoon ended there and reality came onboard...
So thanks to my parent for their support and encouragement, I also want to thank life for taking me to that place to work, because if not, u might still have that same mindsets of an easy life...