Really smart people never treat anyone as a fool
It's better to be kind and benevolent if the agency is exhausted. A student once asked his teacher what kind of people are more likely to get the favor of others? The teacher replied, "A stupid person, a person who doesn't play tricks and is very sincere to people."
There are many smart people in our lives. They are good at calculating and never let themselves suffer at any time. Such a person gains short-term petty gains but consumes others' trust in him. If you treat others as fools for a long time, you will become the stupidest person.
#1
There was a fruit shop downstairs in my house, which went bankrupt in less than half a year. There is no other reason because this shop always likes to play some tricks. For example, if you only bought the fruit in the morning, it will be put on the promotion stage in the afternoon, and the price is only half of the original price; Someone obviously bought bananas for 2 bucks a kg, but the price was calculated at 3 bucks at the time of settlement. Young people are more careless and don't care much about these few dollars, but this method can't deceive seniors with rich life experience. Many elderly people found out about this problem and went back to complain. Neighbors say that if you get the price wrong once or twice, it may be a mistake, but the goods are shoddy, and each settlement is always paid at an expensive price. This is obviously a fool of others. It didn't take long before the supermarket was empty.
There are always people around us who like to take advantage and play tricks. But people are not stupid. You are good at calculating. Others may not say it, but they can see clearly in their eyes and understand in their hearts. The trust between people has always been fragile, and a truly wise person will never lose too much because of small things and overdraw the trust of others in themselves.
There is a saying that goes well: It’s better to be kind and kind if you are exhausted. People who seem stupid are actually they’re really smart; people who seem confused are actually the soberest. People who like to calculate will eventually get to their own heads, and those who are willing to suffer a loss often end up not at a loss.
#2
A few days ago, a media friend told me about a guy in their company. This young man came from a prestigious school and had good abilities, but every time he was promoted, he was not on the list. The young man felt wronged and asked his friend why. The friend comforted him a few words, but in private he said to me that this young man is too smart. He complained every time he was asked to work overtime, and his colleagues asked him for a small favor, but he was unwilling to help. He had an excuse not to go to the AA system at company gatherings. As long as someone invited guests, he was the first to raise his hand to sign up. My friend said with emotion that this kind of person who only cares about himself and cares too much can hardly go long-term.
As expected, people who have played too well in abacus and never traded at a loss seem to have benefited, but in fact, they have lost the goodwill of others. I saw an old story on the Internet earlier about Mr Pat. When he was taking the test of a Show, the chance of winning was not very big, because she neither majored in radio and television nor graduated from art school. But fortunately, the producer was looking for a host who knew a little about Arts, and her Arts was very good, so she decided to give it a try. After seven rounds of competition, Pat finally made it to the final. At that time, the producer asked everyone to prepare a three-minute impromptu speech. The other players are preparing intensively. Only Pat, at such a critical moment, is actually helping another girl in tutoring. A few years later, when the producer talked about the past, he said: "At that time, Pat left a deep impression on me. Because everyone wanted to get the position of the host, and the time was only three minutes. But at such a competitive moment, she was still helping others to teach English. I think this boy was very special and very confident." He was very curious about where the boy's confidence came from. After getting to know him, he found that she was also very good in other areas, so he finally decided to admit Pat. Pat's actions seemed silly, but in turn, he fulfilled herself.
There is a saying that crossing people is also crossing oneself. People with a pattern will often take the initiative to pull people when they can. To help others is to accumulate blessings for yourself. Don't care too much about everything, do things for the sake of others, the final gain will be far more than the abandonment.
#3
I once read a question on the Internet: What do you think is the most intelligent character of a person? One answer is succinct and concise: never treat others as fools.
Interpersonal relationships may seem complicated, but they are actually very simple. It's nothing more than how you treat others, how others treat you. The writer Xia Yanran had a better friend when she was in college. Xia Yanran was from a wealthy family, so every time she went out for dinner with her friends, she would take the initiative to pay for it. Although my friend said every time that she wanted to replenish her with money, every time she didn't stop it. When the two went shopping, Xia Yanran would generously buy something that her friend liked when they met her, but her friend never gave Xia Yanran any gifts. Once, Xia Yanran invited a lot of people to sing on her birthday, and her friend called a bunch of people over and ordered a frantic order on the menu. The most expensive red wine was worth more than 800 yuan. When Xia Yanran went to the bathroom on the way, she happened to hear her friend yin and yang strangely say to another friend: "She is a stupid person with a lot of money, you just need to spend it." Xia Yanran's heart was ashamed for an instant, and she went out of the bathroom without paying the bill, but directly took a taxi back home. Since then, she has broken off with this so-called friend.
In this world, no one is really stupid, just see through without telling it, see-through without exposing. Treating others as fools will only hurt their feelings. Only by knowing the reward of grace can you gain a long-term relationship. The friendship between the two people started from the mutual support of mutual sympathy, and finally the return of love and justice, and the reward of knowing kindness was once passed down as a good talk by later generations. There is a good saying: "For a selfish person, a sincere heart will be taken for granted; for a kind person, every piece of fate is worth collecting with heart.” Associate with people, don't owe favors and don't get people's hearts. A truly wise person never asks for it without limit, nor does it overdraft the relationship.
Those who are too savvy can gain only a short time; those who are reliable and kind can only gain a lifetime. Like it, I hope you can be honest with others, act upright, cultivate the wise rules of life, and live a safe and smooth life.