MEN MOUNT: SINGLEHOOD IS A MYTH, BEING SINGLET NEVER STOPS

Being Single is just a myth and I wish more people knew

So many people are caught up in a world where a flow of thoughts prevails, what ever everyone is doing, that is what more people at the point of decision are likely to do, they don't often consider pushing their chances and making better inquries, they just think if more people are doing it, then it must be right. Not to mention the strong desire to be fashionable and look like others. Maybe just to join the conversation.

This brings me to think of what people really consider to be single, who made it a crime?

Does anything ever change, is it not required even in marriage to still maintain wholeness?

This issue has made many people make several trade offs in exchange for what might be deemed more attractive in the light of not wanting to be single, but months after settling down, the real nature begins to surface again.

Reading through one of Myles Munroe's thoughts in a book, I learnt that, being single is a myth, and being married should not be worshipped. Its just a transition into living with another person also making an effort to be single with you.

If you stopped being single, then you have lost your true nature of wholeness and that may just create complexities for you and the person in relationship with you.

Rather, work on your single life, improve yourself and achieve your goals, don't stay lonely. and avoid the feeling of loneliness.

Here I tell you what I learnt, being alone is not the same as being lonely.

When you re alone, its just you succeeding at what you re doing, you don't need any other person and you don't even feel the need to.

But for the lonely person, he or she is needy, demanding and may not be easily satisfied, Adam was alone, not lonely.

So here is my take on single hood, stop fussing over it, its just a myth, live your life and trust God to bring the right person. and better pray to be ready when that happens.

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