I do not remember the time I was in a clique, because i am a clique spoiler.
People of my age like to come closer to me, maybe, they see me as someone who is intelligent or they have liked one thing or another about me, and i always respond to their call, and I will be a member in the group.
But on a long run, they just have to consider me as a spoiler of the group, because, that thing which makes them to see me, and think I should be a member of their clique, some people elsewhere has seen the same thing, and that means, I have friends elsewhere.
So, I can’t be in a midst of people, and someone I know come around, and I will ignore the person, just because I was in a clique, that does not needs much people.
I had similar challenges, and worst of them was that, it ends in me leaving them and be without those cliques.
I see it as a discrimination, and discrimination is something I do not ever want to associate myself with, because it makes people to feel they do not worth anything, meanwhile it isn’t true.
People have their stand in life, and one way or the other, their places will show when we let them leave our presence.
So, this is something I do not want to do, i have this idea that my friends are my circle, and the people I can count on when I need someone to cheer me up.
In that case, I can not let a clique spoil my relationship with people I know, because the members want to control the clique, if this comes up, and they limit other people from joining the clique, just know i am going to get out, because I value everybody.