Some people never will have much they're too cautious and my caution was always the risk. Risk used to drive me right up the wall I used to say, what if this happens?
And on top of that, if this was to happen look at the fixed place I'd be in I better not try it's called the language of the poor.
Then I'll tell you what changed my whole life when I finally discovered it's all risky, the minute you were born it got risky if you think trying is risky wait till they hand you the bill for not trying if you think investing is risky wait till you get the tab for not investing see it's all risky getting married is risky, having children is risky going into business is risky, investing your money is risky it's all risky.
I'll tell you how risky life is you're not going to get out alive the Englishman says well if that's the way it's going to work out, let's give it a go right that's what it's forgive it a go somebody says, yeah, but I'm looking for safety and security fine, then huddle in a corner.
We'll protect you feed you look after your care for you we won't let anything happen to you and you'll probably live to be 100 years the guy said yeah, I live to be 100 years but what a way to live!
Right, what a way to live safe and secure don't ask for security ask for adventure. better to live 30 years full of adventures than 100 years safe in the corner and see it's not important how long you live what's important is how you live if you're not willing to risk.
You cannot grow and if you cannot grow you cannot become your best and if you cannot become your best you can't be happy and if you can't be happy.
Then what else is there?
I refuse to die and unlived like don't worry about the odds you survive 1 out of 40 million sperm you will never have those odds again you beat those odds you can win anything,
I will fail my way to success see, 8 out of 10 millionaires have been financially bankrupt 85% of people allow their fear of failure to outweigh their desire to succeed.
So you want to begin to take some chances you want to begin to challenge yourself and make it okay to fail and learn from your failure don't allow fear of failure and the lord the attractiveness of playing it safe in life to draw you in you can't get out of life alive you will get to die to leave here.
You must have the mindset that you can do this you've got to begin to believe and to fortify that belief and feed that belief by challenging yourself by stretching yourself and as you begin to challenge yourself you discover some things about yourself that you don't know right now.