A husband has shared the story of his pregnant wife's experience through this article.
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I woke up at 3:45 pm. I see my wife sitting and fidgeting. Pain in lower abdomen. I thought - delivery dates 10 and 16. Today is the 1st date. Certainly not the pain of childbirth. I asked him, what would you like to do? His answer is, you lie down. There was sleep in my eyes too. I fell asleep. I woke up in the morning and saw that he was still awake. Still that pain before. Dr. Umm Zainab said in the morning that it was probably a labor pain.
I was by my wife's side all day. A homeopathic medicine was being given for ten minutes in a row. So that the pain either gets better or worse. But every five minutes there is pain. It lasts for 45 seconds and stops. When the pain arose, his teeth, mouth and jaw would become stiff. He was holding me. This went on till Maghrib.
The midwife came after the Maghrib prayers. I was waiting in my father-in-law's office, sitting next to him. About an hour later, the call came on the father-in-law's mobile. I heard the sound of my mother-in-law crying from the side. The chest swelled. Is my wife okay? The father-in-law said, let's go to the mosque. I pray. The condition inside is not good.
I went to the mosque. I prayed and prayed a long prayer. After Esha, Tar did not sleep. Went straight home. However, the father-in-law did not want to go home. But to be honest, I didn't feel good without my wife. I went home and sat in the waiting room. I could hear my wife screaming from the side of the screen. My heart was pounding at the sound of her crying. I was sitting and crying. Thus about 30 minutes. After a while, the mother-in-law, aunt, mother-in-law and many others started crying from inside ... The mother-in-law said to me with a jainamaz, "Oh father! Prostrate. Pray for my daughter." God bless you! Open all the doors of your mercy. God damn it! Save my daughter.
I fell in prostration in the waiting room. Who says my tears. Once in prostration, once in prayer. I am crying as I enter. The midwife saw our condition and closed the door. But I could hear my wife's screams. He was saying - Oh God! Pick me up! Oh God! I can not go!
I saw dying people at Dhaka Medical. Truth be told - a dying person tastes death once, but a pregnant mother tastes death once every ten minutes.
My wife is patient enough. Even during pregnancy, she did not do any housework. When I threaten, stay away from protests, don't raise your voice. At this moment, my patient wife is saying - Oh God! Pick me up! Oh God! I can not go! Forgive me.
I could not hold myself in his screams. Hiccups rose in tears. Have I ever cried that I do not remember! I fell in prostration and said, Allah go! Give the baby or not. Don't take my wife away. No matter what happens to the child, no matter what happens to the wife.
About an hour in prostration and prayer. Crying rolls when the whole house. When everyone prostrates. At such a time, the desired sound of crying comes out Everyone's crying stops for a moment at the sound of the newborn's crying. Then the crying started again. Cries of joy. We are crying. Tears. But a smile on his face. I called my mother-in-law and said, mother! How is he? I'd like to see him. Everyone assured me - the baby's mother is fine. Looking at the baby!
I fell in prostration again. I cried. This cry is a cry of gratitude. This cry is a cry of contentment.
This child has been in my wife's womb for the last nine months. Honestly, I did not feel as much tension towards the child as I feel towards his arrival after a long 18 hours of terrible labor pains. Probably a factor as to why they're doing so poorly. If there was a Caesarean or very normal baby, I don't think there would be such a tension towards the child now.
Alhamdulillah, even though it is less among us, there is a little bit of monogamy in the world. The husband is proud of his wife. But after seeing this labor pain, he believes that there is no complaint against his wife. There is no monomalinya. If she ever does wrong in the future, and remembers my labor pains, believe me I will forgive.
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When I went to see the wife after hearing the call to prayer in the child's ear, she grabbed my hand and cried - "I thought I was going to die - but it felt bad to think that you are not by my side.
One of the birth pains explained to me?
What a child ...
How much I love husband and wife ...
How much devotion should I have for my wife ...
How hard it is to be a parent ...
My mother was repeatedly reminded of her mother's labor pains. May Allah give her paradise.
Friends!
Find out the stories of so many pregnant women who were with your mother at the time of your birth ... Come on! Love pregnant women. Keep it good.