It's the nature of law that each and every day can't be the same, equally pleasant and beautiful -full of happiness, contentment and giggles.
By any chance, if this happen the our life would be nothing but dry and monotonous.
Our life is a perfect blend of endless sorrow and happiness, ups and downs_ no matter how many times we try our best to enjoy a perfect but utopian life by removing all the things that are causing aches in our heart and soul We have to admit it that we are unable to do so but one thing we all can do easily is to change the way we think and accept things.
It is also necessary to appreciate
all the things small or big, worst
or great, acceptable or
unacceptable our Creator is
showering us with. As a normal human being, it is
natural to feel low, broken
sometimes but in the end of the day
we must accept that we have to live
for not only ourself but also for
those who love and care for us.
Amidst the chaos and anguish, instead of getting entangled We should offer some peace and ease to our body and well as to our mind too.
It is totally okay to cry because the tears is the river of our soul we can't stop that, it shows our strength, declare our aliveness not our weakness.
Whenever I feel low, fragile, crushed I try to suppress my longings, pains by doing some easy chores such a meditating, listening to nature's music, spending both my sorrows and time in my little home garden, enjoying the cold but fresh breeze as in my lowest and darkest days I prefer to stay away from all the warm and toxic breathe of people.
Their( nature's) vibrant colours, charming wood- notes, enchanting beauty and charismatic smell of wet soil and flowers are enough to pain my colourless world with colors and make myself bewitched.
They are not only capable of make someone charmed but also give magestic lessons too.
Here are some of those lessons I
learned from them__
Accept Yourself :— In this world, each and every soul is so obsessed with artificial and outer beauty that we don't even think twice to bully not only the beauty deprived persons but also our own self too.
We need to understand, if we can't accept ourself then why would the world do that for us???
We all are beautiful in our own way, it's Just the acceptance we need to give.
"TO BE BEAUTIFUL MEANS TO BE YOURSELF"
There is no need to crave for everyone's acceptance and appreciation, yours is enough.
Be the person who can see everyone's beauty even when it is hidden.
The weeds are not as beautiful as the others(rose, Lotus) but we can't disagree that they have their own kind of beauty and grace.
The grass flowers remind us that we don't need anyone to accept our beauty , our abilities, we are enough for it.
We all are beautiful just the way we are.
Take your Time to Bloom
There is a perfect time for everything, no matter how much we try to control things they will happen when they have to.
I admit, though this world in which we are dwelling is temporary, here nothing can happen in the blink of an eye, everything needs enough time even miracles needs time to befall.
There are moments when one may feel that everything is going against her/his will, now it is the time to give up but on the other side he/she must know that this is the exact time when anything can happen.
Maybe sometimes we may feel broken and unworthy
Maybe we may think the petals of our petiole like life are withering but it doesn't symbolises that everything is finished and you are not enough because 'The Fall can be the second Spring'
Our life is full of ebbs and flows, we can't do anything about it but one thing we can do is to remain gentle to ourself.
Be kind to yourself when everything becomes unkind to you.
Be the light you need in your darkest days without hesitating.
Shower yourself with all the great things you deserve not because you need them but because you deserve them..
Every flower bloom in their very own way, so does you.
Take your time and bloom gracefully.
You are worthier than you think
Often we see ourself with the mirrors of others and make inferior infront of the world, this is the most common and unsolvable problem among us.
Do not make yourself a prisoner of negetive thought.
Don't belittle yourself because you were born to shine.
Just shine and bloom in your own way.
I'm not a motivator at all, these are the words I felt while fighting with my fears so I hope you will forgive all the mistakes I made
All the photos I used are downloaded from Unsplash.com and this article is written by me and 100% plagiarism free.