Adulthood is indeed an extreme sport
You're managing bills, burnout, body aches, buried dreams
and somehow still expected to reply to every text.
Talmabout Adult friendships?
They're not about daily check-ins.
They're about deep understanding.
People are healing
People are hiding.
People are growing in ways they can't explain yet.
People are fighting battles that don't make it to Instagram.
So please!
Don't confuse silence with distance.
Don't equate fewer calls with less love.
Don't cancel people because they're conserving energy
Check in with grace.
Check in with context.
Check in-don't check out.
I repeat, People are growing
People are tired
Sometimes silence is survival, not distance.