Imali ste lep dan. U nekom trenutku ste počeli da se osećate loše? Razmislite kada je to počelo? Vratite film unazad. Videćete da se to desilo posle nekog susreta, razgovora sa nekom osobom!
Energetski vampiri su svuda oko nas. Neki kukaju, neki su agresivni, neki ćutanjem i prevrtanjem očiju pasivno šire agresiju.
Ja najviše imam posla sa ovima što kukaju. To su uglavnom ljudi koji ne prihvataju odgovornost za svoj život. Kukaju i čude se zašto se ne raspadnete od tuge posle njihove priče?
Pre njih ste ok. U jednom komadu.
Tako bi trebalo i da ostane.
You had a nice day. At some point you started to feel bad? Think about when it started? Put the movie back. You will see that it happened after a meeting, a conversation with a person!
Energy vampires are all around us. Some whine, some are aggressive, some passively spread aggression by keeping silent and rolling their eyes.
I mostly deal with those who whine. These are mostly people who do not accept responsibility for their lives. They moan and wonder why you don't fall apart from grief after their story?
You are ok before them. In one piece.
That's how it should stay.
Budite ljubazni ali postavite granice. Idealne žrtve su saosećajne i osetljive osobe koje imaju izraženu grižu savesti. Ja sam dugo bila takva. Ali radeći na svom duhovnom razvoju, trudila sam se da taj problem osvestim. Većinu nas kao decu oslabe roditelji govoreći nam kako nismo dovoljno dobri, neumemo, ne znamo, glupi smo i tako dalje.
Idealno zemljište, plodno da izraste nesigurna osoba sa manjkom samopouzdanja. E onda ajkule namirišu krv! Zakače se za vas i isisaju energiju. Radila sam dugo sa jednom koleginicom koja je svakog jutra kad dodjemo na posao, imala spremljenu priču. Kukanje i izigravanje žrtve. Duge pauze, ćutanja, prekorni pogledi.
- Šta? Ne veruješ mi?
Iako im kažete da im verujete, nije dovoljno. Treba da se tresnete o pod da bi bili zadovoljni, e tu vam sisaju krv ( energiju )!
Ako se upecate u mrežu, osećaćete se iscedjeno kao krpa. Izgledaćete kao izduvan balon. Loše, veoma loše.
Be kind but set boundaries. The ideal victims are compassionate and sensitive people who have a strong conscience. I've been like that for a long time. But working on my spiritual development, I tried to raise awareness of this problem. Most of us as children are weakened by our parents telling us that we are not good enough, we can't, we don't know, we are stupid and so on.
Ideal land, fertile to grow an insecure person with a lack of self-confidence. Then the sharks smell the blood! They cling to you and suck up energy. I worked for a long time with a colleague who had a story saved every morning when we got to work. Moaning and cheating the victim. Long pauses, silences, reproachful looks.
- What? You don't believe me?
Even though you tell them to trust them, it is not enough. You need to hit the floor to be satisfied, that's where they suck your blood (energy)!
If you get caught in the net, you will feel drained like a rag. You will look like an inflatable balloon. Bad, very bad.
Ako niste naleteli na ovu vrstu vampira, onda ste sigurno imali u blizini one što stalno viču, puno pričaju i prekidaju vas kada vi hoćete nešto da kažete. Vaš problem i nije toliko bitan, jer njihov je mnogo veći ali vi nemate pojma.
Trude se da vam što duže drže pažnju dok vas potpuno ne unište. Ako ne znate da kažete NE, nadrljali ste!
Reći NE nije bezobrazluk nego mera zdravlja. To nas roditelji retko ili nikada nisu učili. Morate to da naučite. Imala sam priliku da upoznam one kojima stalno treba pomoć a vi ste tako super i jaki da ne mogu bez vas. Mogu, mogu oni bez vas, ali ne žele! Zašto kada postoji toliko naivnih magaraca. Nemojte im to dozvoliti!
Svako mora da nauči da brine o sebi. Ne mislim na onu pomoć koja je normalna i prirodna, nego na parazite koji prosto ne mogu bez vas. Ako imate jak ego, bićete najsavršenija žrtva! Oni vas potapšu po ramenu, govore vam kako ste divni, jaki, savršeni, a vi ćete da padnete na umiljate reči hvaljenja. Čista manipulacija!
Šta je lek?
Lek je da prvo osvestite problem, a zatim postavite jasne granice!
To se zove ZRELA LIČNOST!
Morate da razvijate inteligenciju na svim nivoima, da bi prepoznali manipulante i energetske vampire!
Kada naučite ove veštine, neća vam moći ništa. ❤️
Ne dozvolite da vam slabi ljudi crpe energiju i hrane se vama jer ne umete da odbijete. Odbaciće vas, pa šta?! Takvi vam prijatelji ne trebaju! Ljudi se najviše plaše odbacivanja iz društva, zato su spremni na razne kompromise. Zato se ljudi razbole. Osnažite svoje pravo da ne pristanete, da nećete. Ako ne poštujete sebe, niko vas neće poštovati.
Povratite svoju snagu, budite svoji, budite dobro! Jer nikada nije kasno!💪💪💪 Kaži NE!
If you haven't come across this type of vampire, then you must have had people nearby who are constantly shouting, talking a lot and interrupting you when you want to say something. Your problem is not so important, because theirs is much bigger, but you have no idea.
They try to keep your attention as long as possible until they completely destroy you. If you don’t know how to say NO, you’re pissed!
Saying NO is not rudeness but a measure of health. Our parents rarely or never taught us that. You have to learn that. I had the opportunity to meet those who constantly need help and you are so great and strong that I can't do without you. They can, they can without you, but they don't want to! Why when there are so many naive donkeys. Don't let them do that!
Everyone must learn to take care of themselves. I don't mean the help that is normal and natural, but the parasites that just can't do without you. If you have a strong ego, you will be the most perfect victim! They pat you on the shoulder, tell you how wonderful, strong, perfect you are, and you will fall for the kind words of praise. Pure manipulation!
What is medicine?
The cure is to be aware of the problem first, and then set clear boundaries!
It's called a MATURE PERSON!
You have to develop intelligence at all levels to recognize manipulators and energy vampires!
Once you learn these skills, you will not be able to do anything. ❤️
Don't let weak people drain your energy and feed you because you can't refuse. They will reject you, so what ?! You don't need friends like that! People are most afraid of rejection from society, so they are ready for various compromises. That's why people get sick. Strengthen your right not to agree, that you will not. If you don't respect yourself, no one will respect you.
Regain your strength, be your own, be good! Because it's never too late! ”Say NO!
Pozdrav od Anke vregolanke.
Greetings from Anka vregolanka.