I honestly can’t remember much about the actual moment I left home to live in the US away from my family. I have some fuzzy recollections of a surprise going away party, a lot of crying at the airport, and also feeling excited about a new chapter in my life. It’s been so long ago and yet, I still refer to it as my home. 15 years later and somehow, I, in a way, still a stranger, a visitor.
The Philippines is a Southeast Asian archipelago that boasts 1,707 islands during low tide and 1,700 islands during high tide. It sits very close to the equator and belongs to the countries/islands that make up the ring of fire in the Pacific.
Being that it was colonized by the Spaniards for over 400 years, their influence in the culture and language remain prevalent to this day. From the language, food, and predominantly Catholic religion, as well as some of the mentality that prevailed during the era. It was also colonized by the Americans and the Japanese before it finally gained its independence. Now, it is a very eclectic mix of a variety of cultures since Filipinos can be found all over the world and bring home some of those cultures home.
In a way, Filipinos continue to promulgate traditional values like respect for elders and fidelity to one’s family. And despite the sheer scale of poverty and all the issues that come with it, Filipinos continue to be known for their ever-present smiles and warm hospitality.
I cannot talk about the Philippines without talking about its food. Filipinos LOVE to eat. Food is very much a central theme in the culture whether for big events, small gatherings, any occasion, or even just showing appreciation. And though my favorite food is sushi, I remain biased in that I think Filipino food as a whole is the best-tasting in the world.
I also firmly believe that the Filipinos are the OG Gig Workers long before it became a norm everywhere else. Filipinos are very resourceful, hardworking, and generally not picky about what they do to make a living. This is evident in all the stores that pop up along the streets and sidewalk and the folks walking up and down main roads and highways hawking snacks, drinks, or even foot shine services.
Although I left, I am extremely proud to be Filipino and still consider myself one. For all its problems, I still owe my work ethic, resilience, resourcefulness, and hustle to that culture and it’s people. And I always look forward to coming home every time.
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