Motherhood in now a days seems getting out of sense by the younger people after all of the sacrifices and al the loved that I been given to my children being a Sole parent of them became meaningless. I have loves my children with all my life and from the bottom of my heart. But I do not understand what the hell is happening in this world this new generations that parenting is getting less much love and respect.
I mean not all of the children but those parents who are loved and respected by their children are truly lucky.I do not know where did I go wrong I may not be a perfect parent and cannot be a perfect in any ways but seems disciplining our own children now no longer exist.
If you disciplined your children its automatically wrong and even thought I talk to them by heart they didn’t even bother to listen and bear in their mind.I am doing everything I can to please and make them happy what I have never experienced during my children is I am giving all to them because my world only revolves around them.
I am a single mom of 5 kids and they are my world, my sunshine , my light and day.I am very very surprised to what they have shown to me their attitude that it never came into my thoughts that it would happened in one day that they will say they are my obligation but I am not a part of their obligation.
It seems my world has tear apart and broke my heart into pieces when they never let me felt that I am being loved by them nor respected by them.Anyways way back before I do make sure to give and spend quality time with my kids and bring them to the mall or have some vacation with them so that we can enjoy our moments together in spite of my busy schedule working as a Father and a Mother to them.
As they have grown up the expenses’ is terrible not getting a joke especially by education them and by giving them food, shelter, clothing medicine and many more anything that they need it should be provided.
Seeing the happy by bringing them to amusement centers in the mall in every Sunday filled my heart with overflown happiness. Sometimes I do play with them and brings back my inner childhood memories that I wasn’t given a chance at all before when I was a child to play in such amusement places in the malls or even a swim in a pool before is very impossible for me yet I understand my parents cannot afford so what did I do when I grow up and and enough income I always brought my parents into the pool , beach or any vacation places because I know that we never done that before.
As a mother and as also a child I do all my best to make my mother happy because my father had passed away but when my father is still alive we do that as a family event always and the happiness to see them is priceless. If I could do it over and over again whenever I have extra funds I would gladly loved to bring them in a vacation as well as to relieve my stress seeing them laughing out loud.
All photos are mine enhanced by canva
Lately it has became a viral issue here in our country the obligation and the love of the parents or mother to their children and that makes very alarming that we cant no longer gain respect from our children because of these social media sentimental and post which being absorb by young people.