People always ask themselves: how do I make the right decision? Well, you don't, because there is no "right decision", there is only good, or better decisions -and so it's not a boolean, it's a gradient.
Asking what's the right decision is like asking what's the right way, when in fact there is no way to begin with. A decision can be more right, only if you consider a very specific context. Because you always have to ask yourself: right for what?; or from whose perspective?
And with that out of the way, how do you make good, or better decisions?
The five fundamentals of good decision-making.
- You first need an area, a purpose and a reason.
Since perfection is a target, you will never hit, the only realistic goal you have is to improve things a bit further -and for that you need a very specific context.
Where am I trying to improve?
You also need a purpose. Think of this as the general direction of where to take things moving forward. What am I trying to improve?
For example, imagine that the context would be your marriage, and the purpose would be to improve your communication.
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