Sometimes we humans fail to understand that if we are not valuable to some people, we are not entitled in getting anything from them especially when it involves money. Money is an exchange for valuable things which most people consider or accepts as this contributes for a positive results or return. Some people who seek for financial help have this mentality that when they have friends who are doing fine financially, they can easily ask for financial help and when they dont get what they ask for they see such people as been wicked or stingy.
But they fail to understand that everyone have plans for their finances which you dont just expect to get things so easily without making impact in such people's life. we are in a stage where protecting one's finance is very important especially when having the mindset to build and sustain the finance. The fact that your in need of finance doesn't mean the person you run into doesnt have thiers, it only matters on what project is involve and the amount.
The truth is if your not important to some people's lives, avoid asking them for financial assistance because you can be disappointed if you dont get anything in return. This is fact which most people fail to understand and implement. However, there are people you go to for help and they will assist you but that still doesn't give you the assurance that you will get again when there is no valuable connection between you two.
I went to visit a friend of mine sometime ago and when i got there i saw a guy complaining to one of his friend that he asked a particular person for money and the person told him he doesnt have but meanwhile the person that said he doesn't have was doing a transaction that was more than what he asked for to another person and with that action he took offence by calling that guy he asked for money a bad person.
The fact that you believe such people have certain amount of money doesnt mean they dont have plans for it because they do. There are people that will ask for the same help and get it without much stress and if you do your research properly, you will get information about a positive connectivity that have been involve between such people which is a bond that would last for long.
Being valuable to someone doesn't mean it have to involve finances but it should be an act where we humans intend not to forget easily by showcasing assistance in others ways. Nobody is perfect and each day we experience a new day, we continue our journey in making or earning more money for financial growth which we all have idea about without putting an end to it except we are no more. if billionaires are still in pursue for more money then who are we to give up in the journey.
Giving is a choice which doesnt give us guarantee to judge anyone but however we need to understand that there are bills to pay on a daily basis which is why we are always in a journey overcome financial challenges.