If you’re less than 35 years old, this message is for you. Beyond hardwork and hustles, please take the time to invest in relationships. Be genuine with people and make your interest genuine as well. Relevant relationships, of course. Nurture it. Cherish it. Appreciate it. I’ve come to realize that what you know is important and would help you a lot, but it is who you know that would grant you a HIGHER ACCESS.
That’s why there are people who do not know half of what you know, but they occupy positions that you can only dream of. They are in such positions, not because they know better than you. it’s simply because they have ACCESS. And how did they get this access? You already know the answer, my friend. Relationship is a massive leverage. Relationship is a currency of the progressives. Start making those connections NOW.
Please don’t be a leech. Don’t just look for people you’ll benefit from without adding any meaningful value to their life. This should not be parasitism because if you do develop that habit, people will definitely avoid you big time. I do vividly remember my aunts marriage. She did not create any committee of friends. She did not create any group whatsoever. She did not solicit for help. She only invited a few friends to come and celebrate with her and her husband. They decided to throw their weight behind her and I was there to witness it.
It shows that when you care for people genuinely, they will likely return the favor because my aunt is a very kind hearted lady. How many people do you care about?
How many people have you connected with in real life. Ask you self if the people you do relate with in reality are good enough? That if it you do because you have to. How many of your fiends have you supported their business? The support does not have to be financial. We all know there are alot of different ways to show that.
How many of your friends have you bought their course or recommended someone to buy their courses? How many of your friends have you recommended someone to their business? How many people have you shown the way? Do you share information freely or you like to win alone? Do you share bread with your people or you want to eat alone? Relationships are worth more than gold. Value it. Nurture it. Respect it. Please don’t be a leech. There are doors that your money may not open for you, but relationship can grant you unhindered access through that door.
