Everyone tells a child when he is a boy but no one tells a boy when to become a man, the family has been designed to groom the girl child giving her special attention and how to become a lady then a matured woman but only few boys where taught how to be men, alot of boys never knew they where men until they where over the age of 50, the pressure and stress of life keeps riding on thier ego when all they wanted was stability and peace. When he wants anything they give him work to earn when his counter as a female gets it easily. Men also deserves to be pampered to notured and most especially given thier maximum respect because all the affairs of the home and families lies on his shoulders and no one is coming to help him.