Introduction

Majority of People in the world is facing serious painful and stressful conditions. The problem comes in different forms and very difficult to bear. Many people are in sickbed, many have lost their loved ones in death, others are suffering because of essentials like high cost of food and medical items, wars and natural disasters etc.

During June last year, I experienced a shocking moments in my life that I can't quickly forget. While coming back from my village, Our car somersaulted on the highway and many of us, passengers was injured gravely but no casualties. I sustained injuries on my head region, chest and broken shoulder. It was never an easy period for me but encouragement from my friends and family keep me alive and very helpful.

Encouragement is very comforting and helpful. It can strengthen the weak and energized them to be strong and happy despite the depressing conditions. Many people needs such kind words and we can help each other. But it usually difficult to help them out and how best can we encourage others. Let's get some tips.

Tips On How To Encourage Others Kindly.

Many people are good but failed woefully to encourage others. Remember the three friends of Job, A Bible character that suffers many affliction and sickness. Those of his friends had time for him but their words added more injuries to his current situation. They created many doubts and taunt him for everything that befell him. But one of them was very kind to the sufferer and speak kindly to him. Let's learn how to improve on our words and actions whenever we are encouraging or getting encouraged.

Be Loyal And Helpful.

During my sad moments, as I was in pain and hardly do things on my own. One of my friends visited me with his young family. We have been close pal for years. He came and spend quality time with me. It was never easy for him but he was courageous. He accompanied me to the hospital and interact with the doctors on my behalf as it was difficult for me to speak on my own. He paid for my transport and make sure that I was comfortable at the hospital during the tests and consultation. He even went back repeatedly to the hospital which is very far from my residence to get reports and medicines for me.

We encouraging others, let's be loyal and loyal friends stick to others, not only on good times but also during times of distress. We might even risk ourselves or suffer some degree of mishaps in order to encourage others. Our words and actions should proved that we are fully ready and available to help those in pain and discomfort. We can be ready to listen to them and assist them with their chores. They really need such encouragement and support.

Be loyal might demand a lot of sacrifices from us. We can support them with our resources, time and effort. Those things and actions are rightly needed and very helpful. Spending time with me and engaging with chores makes me feel better which is what I needed and it was never easy for him to do so. How comforting it was, when we take them to hospital, provide and even assist them to get feed and fight "loneliness" with them.

Be Trustworthy and dependable.

During my predicaments, My shop was locked and goods there began to get spoiled. My sister was very helpful and trusted. She took some leave from her office to help me on that aspect. My shop to be open will be very important to me. That's my only source of income and the medical needs will be paid, not free or insured. Every evening, whenever she came home. I am sure that of some cash to pay for medical bills and food to be well. The bills was very high but that's only how to cater for.

Whenever we wants to encourage others. Let's be trustworthy and dependable. We should not only promise to help those in need but also do practical things to assist them. In such painful and difficult times, they depend on us and we should prove to be trusted and willing to help them. We should genuinely comfort and help them just as my sister did for me.

Difficult times can affect us emotionally. We usually in pain and needed a trusted friend to share our grief by confiding in them. In that my difficult times, my friend was available to listen to me and even help me in another difficult situation that arises. We were in business with one man before that unfortunate accident. My friend went there and handle the situation perfectly as it should. He was reliable, available and dependable that's why he help me out.

Finally

Around us are people that needs our help and encouragement. We can help and comfort them kindly. In our words and actions, let's makes some sacrifices to assist and prove to be trusted when we are assisting them. We are recipients of good things and comfort from others, let's share it with others.

Let's take the initiative to act despite any challenges. We might be wondering on what to say or do to encourage those in need but honestly when are available and willing to help, our fear and challenges will be overcome. Let us be loyal and trustworthy, then we can encourage others kindly.