Hi everyone! Happy ending of the weekend and I'm welcoming you to reading my article for this week's Weekend experience prompt.
I am someone who believes in the fact that whatever way you are as a human, either black, white, fair in complexion, OR tall, short, dwarf in height, OR thin, robust, big, bold in size etc is really the way you're created to be but some times I grumble at my kind of stature.
This may kind of sound funny but it's really something that do make me feel Its the reason why I find myself in some complicated situations.
I am a lady with a small stature and aside the fact that I'm not tall, I'm still not fat and this isn't about not eating because I've seen people who doesn't eat much but they are big and bold (BBB Big Bold and Beautiful).
There were even times I tried as much as possible to eat late at nights since they said that also add to someone adding more flesh but it's just like disturbing my body system in vain.
Most times in the past, I've been looked down on because of my small stature.
There had been times I had gone for physical interviews and I feel like I was looked at as a minor. There has been times I found myself in some arguments and I'm being shunned to stay quiet because the person I'm talking to is not my mate and I might had to be defended by a close person to not being shut up.
My age doesn't speak for me except I'm holding my birth certificate haha. Though, age is just a number like they say.
Another angle is seeing some outfit styles I may want to sew for some occasions but I will eventually be advised by my fashion designer not to try plucking leaf from the tree I can't get through to and I would just have to select another style that fits my stature.
The year I celebrated another decade was when I had to answer a whole lot of questions from friends and acquaintances because of my post. It wasn't funny.
As annoying as all these situations are, I am still admired by most people of my same gender.
Some would say, I don't know the value of my stature I have and the realization of the advantages was going to dawn on me when I start approaching old age (what about my young age though) while some would see me like I'm even an ingrate because what I complain about is what they keep subscribing to get at the gym centers to get which I'm not spending to keep fit.
So, though my stature may have put me in some complicated situations and probably still putting me but I can also say that it has helped me realize how to carry and present myself in the presence of people to reduce the situations of been looked down on. I'm benefiting from it to staying healthy as well and also awaiting future benefits of staying fit, away from body weight sicknesses and the likes and with this I'm addicted already to my young-looking stature.
I'll be dropping my 🖊️ here on the Weekend Experiences community prompt on complicated situations that have also favored me.
Thanks for reading through 🤗
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