When the themes of the week were raised, I noticed that many of them were related, at least for me, after so much learning in life. For that reason I believe that the main one would be education at home, from there derives the root that create others, such as failure, success, selfishness and courage.
The most difficult task of the human being is not to learn, but to unlearn those beliefs and decrees that come from upbringing, family and even ancestors.
Many mental programmes come in the genes, from before we can be aware of ourselves.
Then the home, according to its own beliefs, educates us and thus we are formed as men and women in this world.
Is what we are taught right or wrong? There is no right or wrong, there just is.
Our job is to detect what makes us happy and what doesn't, always within the limits of respect for others.
The family can teach us about various subjects, or actions in daily life.
Selfishness can come from a teaching, but today I will only consider the one that I think is important. Being selfish with oneself.
We are often taught to put the other first, to give and give and give and keep for last.
If we don't love ourselves, we can't love anyone, because we don't know what love is.
So is it selfish to love ourselves? If I don't give things to myself, no one else will, because I tell the universe that I am left for last. We cannot give what we don't have.
It is not being selfish to think of ourselves, on the contrary, we tell the world that we are worth, and so we learn that we can give what we are, what we have. But first we must give it to ourselves. Self-knowledge and self-indulgence is important.
In the formation of the home we discover about failure and success, linked to courage.
Is it wrong to be successful? What are we taught as children? What is the belief behind it all?
Success is often frowned upon, it is a sign of money and there is a belief that comes from the upbringing of ill-gotten money. Unlearning that belief is not easy, it comes from the past and is repeated over and over again in homes.
I believe that there are no failures in life but stepping stones through which one learns, each supposed failure is another learning process to reach a goal. The final goal we have is our greatest success, but each overcoming of each obstacle is a small success that forms us for a greater one.
We came into this life to be happy, why reject when we do well?
Learning and learning is the way of life, but first we must unlearn erroneous beliefs. No one is to blame for them, they only gave us what they had and in turn learned.
That unlearning is a long road depending on how strong the belief is rooted in our unconscious. When one frees oneself from them, there is a void that will be filled by what we learn, what we choose for our life. That is where courage comes in.
The courage to dare to enjoy life, to take the risk that we may not always do well, that we may fail, but knowing that this will lead us to something greater. The ultimate success, to evolve as people and achieve great things.
Each person is different from each other. What is happiness for one is not for another. Therefore, there will be as many concepts of success as there are people, depending on what makes each person happy and satisfied.
Let us dare with courage to live, to get rid of old beliefs that bind us and to have many successes in every area of our lives. Let's live flatly in order to grow and evolve.
Thanks to this community @WEEKENDEXPERIENCES for giving me this space to share these thoughts and @galenkp for the fabulous topics.
Best regards to all, see you in the comments.
See you next time.
Amonet.
All photographs are my own.