There are many things, that if perhaps someone had explained them to me, maybe I would have done some things differently, but in many cases of my life history, I had to learn by my own experiences, with no other guide than life itself and a little of the wisdom of my grandmother and mother, who through their own experiences, tried to alert me, advise me about some situations that could happen to me throughout my life.

Some of them served me as a guide through time, others, as I said at the beginning, I had to learn them by myself, here I bring you some tips that I have learned and put into practice and that for me have been crucial in my 49 years:

• "Time wasted, even the saints mourn it".

This is a saying in my country, that my grandmother adopted or said, to refer to the fact that time should not be lost, because it is not recoverable and that is true. Youth passes in the blink of an eye and when you realize you are already turning 50 hahahaha. As in my case, that is why it is important to be clear about your life purposes and work for them, take advantage of those energies, push to achieve them and enjoy them, even with a certain youth and tranquility, it would be ideal.

Although everyone's time is different, because of their own life processes, it is always good to take advantage of your time, in matters that nourish you, make you feel happy, fulfilled. That is what is relevant, that what you do makes you feel satisfied, because in the end it will remain your life, not someone else's.

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• "Believe in Deeds, not Words".

This applies to all areas of life, personally, at work, in business, here I would add (all in writing) hahahaha. I learned this by taking many disappointments from people in whom at some point I trusted, trusting their words, promises and that in the end ended up showing their true intentions, their true faces and they were not nice. Therefore, observe very well the actions of people and by them you will know who they are.

• "Always bet on you".

For everything you do, undertake be your first, fans, do not let anyone tell you "You can not or are not capable", trust you and fight for what you have as a goal, I assure you that every step won, and will be a triumph for you, maybe you do not go at the same speed as others, but it's your pace, it's your experience and remember you are not equal to anyone, that is very important to keep in mind and every time you feel you can not, remember "you are unique, you are important, you can".

• "Whatever You Start, Finish It".

It seems unbelievable, but this is something that seems to have no importance at all, but it is very crucial, because it is good to have and create good habits that will lead you to realize all the vicissitudes of your life in all aspects, a relationship is over, finish everything that has to do with it, that nothing is pending; a negotiation is over, also nothing is pending, you started a project, try to finish it and not leave it half done, because there is no worse feeling than feeling that you have not completed anything in your life or something valuable to you.

• "Never spend everything, nor count everything".

In the first, do not spend everything, it is always good to have even a small reserve for any emergency or need that comes your way, because nothing is for sure in this life and you do not know when you may need. As for the second thing, do not tell everything, it is proven that there are certain things which one must reserve for oneself and for God, as in my case; not everything you should tell example to a partner, a friend or someone else, because in times of darkness anyone can take that confession and use it against you, whoever it is.

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These were some life lessons that I learned over time, some with bitter tears, disappointments and stumbles, others by paying attention to what I was living and listening to the advice of my loved ones, which at the time served me well. I hope they can be of help to you at some point in time.

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