The bond ring is a symbol of love and oneness between you and your spouse. It must be kept and treasured. However, in times of need, could it be the last resort?
How are you today, lovable, wonderful, and beautiful Hive friends? I hope you are all safe and in good health🥰. This is my entry for the weekend-engagement concept initiated by @galenkp of the Weekend Experience Community. The topic that I would have chosen and would share with you today is the helpful thing that I owned.
On our civil wedding, we did not have engraved wedding rings because it was really expensive and we could not afford them. I could still remember that I told my husband that a personalized ring made of tie wire would do for me 😂. But on the day of the wedding, he told me we had a ring already. Anyway, I believed that marriage is not all about the ring, it is just symbolism, the most important in marriage for me is the presence of two different people on that day who have the same heart and chose to be one.
Some people say that pawning rings is a bad luck in marriage. As for me, I would rather face the bad luck if that is so, than seeing my kids hungry and starving. I would rather suffer than seeing my children suffer. Life has been hard for us and I would rather let go of things for some time to save us in our daily needs for a week especially when pay day seems to wait like forever😂.
And then...😂
I don't know if you are familiar with that piece of paper😂. But I am very used to it. Recently, I pawned my ring (don't worry I have informed my husband about it😂). When payday comes, I would reclaim my ring soon. What's important is that it could save us for a week.
With my son, we were able to buy 2.4 kg of their milk, a tray of eggs, and some necessities. It could last more than a week for us. I am relieved and will not be stressed anymore as long as the kids had something to eat.
Well, going back to the question. Could it be the last resort? Definitely yes for me! If you can't because it's too sentimental for you, well, I'll give you my utmost respect. And please respect mine too. You've not been in my shoes and the hardships I've been through. I would appreciate your understanding and support🥰, I would need it more than criticisms😥.
I am sure we all have helpful things we owned. But that ring is the only thing I owned that could urgently help and save us from starving.
That's all for now my dear Hive friends! Let us spread love and understanding, not only this holiday season but every day. I hope you have something to relate to in this blog🥰. And I can't thank you enough for your time reading this or for reblogging if you can. Please know that I appreciate it much🤩.
See you in my next post! Sending my best regards and warm big hugs.🥰🤗🤗 HAPPY HOLIDAYS!🎄🎄🎄🎄