We always think that bringing up a change in our life will always be for something good and it will benefit it, it's definitely true but sometimes you get into such situations where it's that you have to direct yourself to stop this thing because bringing up a change will really cause a harm to yourself.
As being asked, Yes, I do have recently resisted a change but it was for my better and it was indeed really very helpful for me to be strong and move on.
I do follow a sort of strategy or it's within me that once I'm being close to a person I'll be really very sweet and keep on forgiveness upon things which are sort of acceptable but once I'm done if the other person disrespects me or hurts me. Recently a person being so close to me really made me feel that way by making excuses about the fact that I'm just so irrelevant and possessive:)
Recently a really very close friend of mine had an argument with me that, it was some thing about the time issue and upon my behaviour. So he mentioned about the fact that It's a goodbye like I'm not interested in talking with you and all those things.
I just recieved a large paragraph which left me shocked for sometime, I really didn't expected such sorts of bye ever but I had to. So infact of writing up a huge paragraph in response to it and changing my self and solving things out I just texted a small message and that's "ok", which I have been following with other people as well and it's within me from a long time.
I just had that thing at the backend of my mind that If I keep of forgiving people on their mistake and accept them, can't they bear just a small thing of not view a message for a day or they just started thinking that I'm ignoring them or being irritating or irrelevant, which are just excuses when you are bored of a person from a long time. So you just find out ways to say a goodbye.
The change within me just got behind and stopped me from pleading others to stop, it's my old concept to just let go without looking behind ever again and it's really good for me, it suits my personality to treat people the way they do to me.
All the tantrums and the drama just went of my life and it's really good to live by yourself, because the time you think to change yourself for even a single person, you'll definitely repeat the mistake because it's 1 which has been there, if you bring up a change and keep on doing these things another day you'll face 10 other people and they a large number of other who are also ready to fool you, it just starts with one.
Moreover, I don't think that once a change is resisted such situations aren't repeated, they definitely are but the thing to prepare yourself for long run that's if the thing is gone that shouldn't come again to disturb you or you should not give it a chance again.
I still hear about that person saying thing that it was my fault and she didn't care, it's ok. Sometimes I do think about it that should I have stopped him but then I think about the harm and pain which was hurting me and just forget about it and start thinking something good.
So sometimes situation are made in a way that you really get confused that whether to choose the "new me" or the "old me" because everytime change is not important sometimes being who you are and the old personality which you have, really work, matter what others say about you, you definitely should be yourself.!
Initiated by @galenkp