Hello to all community members.
I must say that it's difficult for couples not to have arguments, but the most important thing is that these exchanges don't involve disrespect, much less physical aggression.
Like any couple, my husband and I have had arguments, but they have almost always been resolved quickly and in the best possible way.
But on one occasion, we had an argument that almost broke up the relationship.
The cause?
A so-called friend told me that she thought my husband was being unfaithful, and I believed her. When he came home from work, we had a very ugly argument in which I told him I didn't understand his infidelity, that he hadn't behaved like a gentleman, that I hadn't given him any reasons for his betrayal, and many other words. The words were spoken in a threatening tone and loudly.
For his part, my husband told me I was being unfair, that he had no proof or reason for this accusation, and that if I continued with this argument, he would leave the house.
You can understand that I was furious and upset, and I told him many other things, and he remained calm, something that upset me even more.
In the end, he left the house.
He was away from home for 27 days. But the strange thing was that the alleged wife never appeared, nor was he seen in any suspicious situation. A true friend called me and told me she was about to lose a true love for an unfounded reason or gossip, as we say here, a lie.
On the 28th, I made an appointment with him, and we spoke as civilly as possible.
I apologized for believing in someone else more than him and our feelings.
I asked him to come back to the house.
When he returned, I made sure to make the food he likes, play our favorite music, and recreate the atmosphere of our best moments.
From that moment on, I stopped believing in unfounded things and let my feelings decide for me.
Thanks for reading, and have a nice weekend.
Note: The photos are mine and were taken with my Samsung Galaxy phone.
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