Hanya Yanagihara
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This question is a bit strange as well, and it is also a bit confusing for conservative-thinking citizens living in a country like ours.
No person will openly say that he would choose between being beautiful and being sexless, or being ugly and being extremely sexy. But in a way you have given me the freedom to express my heart by asking this question.
And I want to keep my point to you without any hesitation. As the people of this whole world or universe know that if there is no sex in the life of any man, then his life is in vain. It is said that once a man can live without satisfying the hunger of the stomach, but he can neither sleep nor live without satisfying the hunger of sex.
So according to my opinion, if I am asked to choose one option from these two options, I will definitely choose that option in which even if I become ugly, my power to have sex remains equal. Because what is the use of being handsome who cannot satisfy his female partner, female friend, or wife?
In my opinion, no woman, even if she is his wife, will accept such a handsome man for a long time, who cannot give her sexual satisfaction. Women up to the age of at least 50 expect constant sex from their male partners, and wives or female friends of men who are unable to satisfy them sexually either develop other relationships or become frustrated. lead a life Anyway, what is the use of a person being handsome because he himself will live in frustration after being unsuccessful in sex?
On the contrary, if an ugly person is successful in his sexual relations, he will get full respect and love even after being ugly.
On failing in sex in his life, a person can never be successful in his field of work, in his life, and the mind remains immersed in the darkness of despair. Various thoughts flourish in his mind and he wastes his precious money by falling in the trap of real and fake sexologists.
In fact, failure of sex is not a physical disorder, it is also a kind of psychological deficiency, which can be treated by a psychologist only through counselling.
I have seen many such people in my lifetime, who were separated from sex due to the effect of any incident or accident, and later they were successfully treated by the sessions of a good psychologist and then they are living a happy life.