Looking at the the kind of family I grow up in and how we were brought up make me understand power of unity and I never want to loose that.
Right from my tender age, I grow up in love and unity even if at some point there will be query but my late mom will always rebuild and make us bond back and loosing that kind of love or back out from the legacy she lay for us after her death is my biggest fear which I will never allow it to happen.
I'm from a family of 6 with my parent but unfortunately death turn it 5. My late mummy found herself in the family where she was not really loved by her mother which was pass to rest of her siblings, she struggle on her own, cater for herself, do all things at a very young age, there was no genuine love between her and siblings even though she tried so hard to change it but you can never make a correction to a building that the foundation is wrong so bonding well with her siblings was not always easy.
Now my mom having her own children she correct what was her biggest concern and fear between her and siblings, she brought us up in unity, love and trusting each other which we grow up with and is part of us.
I and my siblings love each other standby eachother and support in time of need and I'm happy that my mummy aims is fulfilled.
My biggest fear started after my mom's death Over a year now, I always ask my myself will the love , the caring, trusting and having each others back continue between I and my siblings.
My ways of breaking the fear is nothing than to keep up the legacy she has laid down for us,try all possible best to make sure I and my siblings stand together United even though we are united but we still need to put more effort because the woman who always watch our back and make sure everything is in right order she's no more so I need to keep up the energy going never turn back. I know we are humans and at some point there might want to be misunderstanding but I will always try all possible best to settle up any small difference so it won't escalate, even if I want to disagree with any decision made it should be in love not bitter mind that's only when love can leads and unity.
Checking up on eachother even more than before, building a strong relationship among eachother even at point of each of us having our family.
Planing and having monthly reunion hangout before and after having each other family that too will shows to each other family the type of love we have and it will leads to our children's.
With these I can overcome and break my biggest fear.
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