Failing as a learning experience.
No one wants to fail at anything. In fact, the thought of failing brings us uneasiness.
If I'm to talk about my own experiences, I must say that all failings come with learning.
There are things I have failed at, and yet I have learned. In any case, these experiences have come more from the emotional and family than from external events.
One of the most decisive moments in my life was when I moved from my hometown to the capital. Emotionally, I was in a state of illusion, believing in all the possibilities that were coming to my future. But I failed to believe that everything would be different and found myself in the worst of family dramas.
I think there is nothing worse than when you have a vision of people, and then it turns out that it was all a facade. Luckily, I learned from the situation, which led me to understand that not everything is always what you think it is. People change, and so do I.
And so, I started living alone three weeks ago, learning that there is nothing better than peace of mind. Even though I failed in believing in people, something positive came out of each one of them, and I am grateful for the teaching because in that way I understood that I may have hidden talents and that it was only a matter of exploiting them.
And maybe I'm financially broke, but my state of mind has never been better.
